Marilyn - posted on 04/20/2010 ( 21 moms have responded )
Hopefully, I'm not only here. In 2007, my boyfriend and I went into high gear. We got married, had a baby 17 days later (I was 9 months pregnant at my wedding!), and bought a house just before New Years. So I found myself at 23 with a baby, husband, and a mortgage. Things changed with my friends because now they looked at me as beeing more mature and less....free? They thought I was tied down because I was married even though both BFFs have been with their guys longer than me and the hubby. Anywho- just when my son was getting old enough for me to try the social scene again, I got pregnant again. I now have a 2.5 year old and a 4 month old. Oh and for the hell of it, I QUIT MY JOB TO BE A MOM FULLTIME!
I love my boys dearly and wouldn't trade them for the world, but I MISS HAVING RELATING TO MY FRIENDS!
Some friends are married but no kids. I'm really thinking maybe I need more friends I can relate to. Some young moms with kids around my children's ages, so we can do playdates and talk about being young but still FUN. My son's toddler reading group sucks because it's alot of grandmas or nannies.
Any ideas or indidviduals that feel like me??