Is wishing the BM would stop talking bad about me!

Kyleigh - posted on 05/17/2011 ( 4 moms have responded )

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I m terribly disturbed by the BM of the SK's talking bad about me, she does it all the time. Im at my wits end and we have mutual friends of friends and she is telling them i have STDs and everything I wanna say so bad are you really obsessed? She has to be jealous, she always bad mouthing me on fb and otherpeople that it gets back to me!

Grow up!

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Ashley - posted on 05/19/2011

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you have to be the bigger person... always remember no matter what she says or tells people or WHATEVER it might be... You know who you are. Don't let crap like that in your head. i know its easier said than done but...Whatever you do, don't ever talk bad about her because it makes you look just as bad. :)

Jenni - posted on 05/18/2011

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I've noticed it too. You keep talking about her.



We create our own drama by getting involved in theirs.



You keep fueling her fire and starting your own little fires and you're going to get burned.



The trick is to not talk to her, not talk about her and not think about her.



Why are you letting her become such a big part of your life?



I'm sorry, but I've seen a lot of your posts and they're all about her. Who's obsessing over whom?



I agree with Jodi- rise above it for the sake of the children and don't lower yourself to her pettiness.

Jodi - posted on 05/17/2011

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I agree with Jennifer - you have been doing quite a bit of that yourself. She might back off a little if you do. Personally I think you all need to grow up and learn to take the high road for the sake of the children.

Bri - posted on 05/17/2011

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I havent seem to notice you badmouthing anybody, it happens from time to time its normal to vent! good luck Miss

Medic - posted on 05/17/2011

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Most of your posts are you badmouthing her...I am really not judging but those in glass houses should not throw stones.