Leah - posted on 04/12/2010 ( 2 moms have responded )
My ex has not seen my children since Dec 09 ( just after Christmas when he spent a total of maybe 10 min at my house and most of that time was on the computer ) lets add that he did not get them anything for Christmas and that he forgot there Birthdays the last 2 years and again never got them a gift or a even just a card ... He did come to the party (last year after having to remind him about it) but all he did was sit on a bench and I mean that he just sat on that bench untill it was time to eat and sing Happy Birthday... He has not called in the last 4 months and then maybe 3 before that ... he has never given me a cent towards any kind of Child Support ... This is how its bin since we seperated..He has taken them once for the day 2 years ago and has never taken them for the weekend or anything like that ( not that I mind I dont really think I want him to) Should I just drop him like the dead beat that he is or should I take him to court and make him pay ??? Its bin over for about 4 years now and my daughter is almost 4...