Katharine - posted on 06/11/2010 ( 115 moms have responded )
I was wondering if I am suppose to get my baby his dads last name or my last name. Like I don't want to make conflict between us but he don't seem that he is going to really stay in our lives. Right now he is saying he wants to be with me and that he wants to take care of the baby. However, depending on who is around depends on how he act towards me. I need help!?!?!?
Plus his family wants to have contact with the baby, and I love hanging out with them. However, I don't think that they are going to want anything to do with us if I don't give the baby his dads last name.
I just don't think it is fair that I am the one carrying this baby, and going to be the one taking care of him when he is born. And he should get his dads last name.
I mean its not that I am going to not let his dad be in his life because I want him to be. I love this man, but don't think he is going to stay with us or even care what happens to us. Because he has a bitch 'best friend', but if she don't want him to be happy how can you call themselves best friends.
Please help me because I am so confused!!