Ella - posted on 12/16/2009 ( 33 moms have responded )
With out my consent or knowing, my mother-in-law is purchasing baby's first Christmas items for my first and only child. She keeps on and I give a fake smile and walk off with out saying anything b/c I know if I do say something it wont be nice [we have bad history]. My fiance and I are trying to find something we can start as a tradition and there was a beautiful teddy that we bought for 20.00 and when we got home and showed his parents, his mother [my in-law] said "oh. guess she will have two of them." really matter of factly and sarcasticly. I just grabbed my bags and went to our room. I can't help but cry it really upsets me to know she is taking this away from me as a new mommy and my fiance wont do anything about it. I know my fiance should do something, but I need some advice as to what I should do. Should I say something to her or not? if so what should I say?