Ricky - posted on 12/11/2009 ( 11 moms have responded )
Im 22 and my bf is 25. He would rather me stay at my moms during the holidays (Christmas to new years) so he can go out drinking. We agreed that I'd visit my mom every other weekend so he can go out and be a "25 year old male", but the holidays is different. This is going to be our sons 1st christmas and I dont know what to do. I was going to spend Christmas eve with my mom and family than come back Christmas day to be with him, but Im wondering if I should since he doesnt want us around (I just didnt want him to miss his sons 1st christmas). Ive happily given up my drinking/partying days to be with our son but it hurts me that he is still stuck in our pre-baby life.