Tamara - posted on 03/05/2013 ( 19 moms have responded )
I am sure that I will be getting a lot of judgement, but I feel that I need to be fully honest in order to get some great feedback.
I am currently pregnant with my ex boyfriend/lover' baby. We were seeing each other for almost 2 years, even though we were in other relationships.
I have decided to proceed with the pregnancy and have left the man that I was with. I had been wanting to leave the relationship for quite sometime and was afraid to do so, and this just helped me get the strength to do it. I am 29 and have a great full time job, and very much able to parent on my own.
When I notified the baby's father, he said he would support whatever decision I made. I told him that I did not want to be romantically involved with him, but would be open for him to participate with the pregnancy etc. He has not told his gf nor his family. He's on occasion contacted me to see how I am feeling, and just this past weekend he advised me that he was attending dinner for his mothers birthday with his gf.
My question is, is it too much to ask for him to just give me a definite answer? That way I know where he stands. I feel I deserve that at least.