Shauntell - posted on 05/28/2010 ( 13 moms have responded )
So, I really just need to get this off my chest!
My husband is a farmer, and he works extremely hard! BUT when the weather is nice, he's working (doesn't bother me at all). When the weather is bad, so he can't work, he goes out with his buddies! I'm home 24/7 with our 11 month old daughter, and he probably spends 30 minutes a day with her! She's up for 30 minutes before he takes off for the day, and then is in bed by the time he decides to come home!
Sometimes he tells me that I shouldn't mind him going out, because I went out to a movie the night before... I'm usuallly home by 9 when I go out, and he's never home before 1 in the morning! It's like our marriage is just one big "well, you did this, so I get to do this".
I'm used to him not being home, because he did the same thing when we got married when I was 19 (3 YEARS AGO) But he needs to be home for his daughter! Am I wrong?
So he got home from the bar about 12 last night, I don't care anymore... But he KNOWS that if I have to get up the next day for work, then he gets up with Kylee if she wakes up through out the night... He didn't! She was up from 11:30 til 1:45, around 1:30 he decides to FINALLY get his ass out of bed and help try to get her back to sleep, all he does is bring her to our bed. Then he started asking me "How is she, is she up to state or just citizen?" I had no idea what the hell he was talking about, then something about "5 fingures", "soil conservation", and then the "state or just citizen" thing came out... Still no idea, and when I KEEP asking him what he's talking about, he tell me that I'm stupid (he was very mean about it).
Then when he finally got across that he was asking if I gave Kylee any teething medicine (I still don't know what he was talking about before) I said ya... Then he goes on to tell me how big of a bitch that I am (supposedly this is coming from his friends) because I sent him a few texts last night, one saying "love you, good night" and the other one asking if he was going to stay home with Kylee today or if I needed to take her to his moms this morning...
So, I guess I'm just a stupid bitch!