Christa - posted on 04/18/2012 ( 65 moms have responded )
when i became pregnant my husbands sister said OMG I WAS SUPPOSE TO BE THE FIRST to have a baby no congradulations just wining. every family event on my husbands side she would go on and on about when she has a baby and take the attention off of me actually being the one pregnant. my sister in law is married and has a few step children who she treats like shit and her husband is fixed ?? so she cant even have his babys yet untill hes un fixed and everyone was so interested in her made up idea of a baby then me being pregnant?? to top it off she didnt have plans to get married untill i got pregnant then it was urgent to get married to take the attention from my daughter she wanted to have her wedding on my friggen due date so her parents would choose her wedding over me but then realized they would talk about me having ababy so she changed it to after i had the baby and talked about her wedding for the months leading up to me having my daughter . she only invited her step dad and mom to watch her get married so that she could gloat infront of everyone about how small her wedding was .we were only invited to the dinner after the wedding and she made it very clear our 4 month old was not allowed to come to the dinner beacause they didnt want any kids at all there but yet her husbands kids were there?? .then later on when i had my baby shower she told her mom she never wanted to go and her aunt convienced her to apparently come like wth would his mom tell me she was forced to come . when she came to my baby shower she sat with her aunt gloating about when she has a baby to the point that my aunt asked me if she was pregnant i said no... but she likes to go on about how she wants a baby to take the attention off me . shes so selfish she left my baby shower walked to her mommys and then came back at the end and no one said anything to her but thanked her for comming when she didnt help and she didnt stay i helped more and it was suppose to be my baby shower . there was no mention about her being rude it was ok because she can do anything she wants. my boyfriend on many occasions has tried to talk to his parents about his sister and they just yell at him . i feel for him but like ughh its crazy . ive been more then kind to his family and they treat me like trash 2 months after having my baby his dad asked me if i needed a troft when i was making my self a plate at dinner and a couple months later said a piece of cake his wife cut me was way to big mean while i was sharing with my husband .but he gave half the cake to his son in law and he actually ate it but my tiny piece was to big . i had a bad pregnancy experiance and had stress and his father took it upon him self to make fat jestures 2 months after i had a baby. i live in a small town and my husbands mom went around saying i had postpartum when i didnt to people i knew when i never even had it they just kept putting stress upone stress on me . when my child got a few months older his sister never came to visit our daughter never called and was so jealous never even came to her 1st birthday. on my daughters first christmas my sister in law got drunk and almost hit my newborn daughter in the head with a bottle and his family thought it was funny that she was drunk ? like how sad is that my daughters first christmas and she has to steal the attention from a baby and his family thinks its funny ???.then on my daughters 2nd christmas she made sure she went to her parents in the morning before we got there so the attention would be about her and also the parents give alot more gifts to her and her husband then anyone else , my husbands mother gave me maybe at the most 25 dollers in junk and bought the son in law 200 dollars in gift cards when ive been there the same amount of years and my husbands sisters step kids got a 100 dollar gift card and there real grand daughter got maybe 40 dollars spent on her at the most. . my husbands sisters dog gets more attention then there granddaughter they even say the dog is there grandchild like wtf a dog is more important then there flesh and blood ??? my mother in law never calls to take my daughter out but they take there son in laws kids out that arnt even related to them . . we literally live 5 minutes from there house and they dont visit there grand daughter dont call but his mom goes around town bragging about her when she does nothing for her . im so fed up its allways his sister is right oh lets ask her if we can wipe our butts like ughhh helpppp! then at easter my husbands father got mad at my husband because he defened him self when his sister started a fight and his dad screamed at him . i was so appauled that his father said f**k atleast 6 times in front of my 19 month old daughter and made a rude gesture about my daughter that was so discusting i could have puked and his step daughter laughed and agreed so it was okay so later on after my husband freaking on his father he appoligized to him not me who was there but his son who wasnt even in the room. i made a rude comment about his sisters drawings over a few accounts on the internet and now his whole family hates me and thinks i should appoligize !!! but she has picked on me and my daughter for two years and i even went to her parents 3 times and they did nothing about it to the point i had to do something to kinda get revenge for her picking on me . i know i shouldnt have stoupped to her level and i am sorry for that but im not sorry because she has made my life hell for 2 years and my husbands family thinks thats justifiable . sooo now his moms spreading rumour around town about me when ive done nothing and his parents keep harrassing my husband for me to appoligize to his sister because shes mad . but wheres my appoliges for her being a b***h for 2 years because shes jealous of what i have . i told my husband i dont want to go back again since im treated so poorly and our daughter shouldnt have to go back untill his family learns to act right around her and treat her better then a dog!!.i have dealt with this for 2 years his family doesnt respect me and most importantly they dont respect our daughter . ive tried to talk to his parents and they think what they do and their daughter does is fine so theres no hope . id just like to say ive tried everything and i wont be treated poorly anymore.not to mention ive asked his mother not to let my daughter play with money cause she will swallow it and not to let her play with her purse that has ciggarettes in it and she doesnt listen at all . his mother even had the nerve to tell my aunt that she trys clothes on my daughter when shes at there house and changes her into her other clothes when i get there so she can keep the nice clothes for when her daughter who isnt pregnant can have themm ... wtf why not give then to your friggen grandaughter who exsists!! i feel bad for my husband but like a person can only take so much !!!! its so pathetic that a 28 yaer old is jealous of a 19 month old and everyone thinks she does nothing wronge she has done alot more to me but i would be here for hours explaining.