Jazmin - posted on 07/13/2012 ( 10 moms have responded )
I have been with my husband for 6 years now married for 1 year. We have a beautiful daughter that's 9 months and he has 2 daughters 8 and 10 for 2 different relationships. I don't know why she hates me but recently every time my 2 step daughters go to her house my mother in law and her husband are basically interrogating the kids about me. And saying tons of bad thing about me to the kids. Just last week they made the 10 year old cry by kicking her out of their house cause they didn't like her answers to the question. They think I have some kind of brain control and that I am brain washing the kids against them. I have never had a problem with the kids seeing herbut every time they do my mother in law says off the wall things that were never even said or done. She has seen my9 month daughter only about 10 times since she was born. Just today my mother in law ans her husband come to my house to I guess confront me because my mother in law insists I was screaming at my 10 year old step daughter the other day about being at her house when I was the one that allowed her to go in the first place. Anyways they come and ask my step daughter in front of me what happen and she told them well they didn't like her answers and say I am brain washing her and she is only saying that cause I'm in the room. My mother in laws husband told my stepdaughter "so ur saying ur grandma is making things up" and she said yes. And she told them she doesn't want to go to their house any more if they continue to make things up. They only speak Spanish so I didn't understand what was said but they go to my husband and try to convince him I'm this horrible person terrorizing his kids. I told my husband if they kids don't want to go to her house I'm not forcing them am I in the wrong for not letting them go over there?