Ashley - posted on 05/28/2010 ( 13 moms have responded )
I was just reading the post put up about having a second baby shower and its kind of making me sad again. My baby is 6 and a half months old I only have one. My Mother told me she was going to plain a shower for me but because we didnt know the sex of our baby until he was born, she wanted to have it after. Then he was born November 11th. Which she knew he was going to be born in November she decided that it was to close to Christmas to through him a shower. So I never had one. I know its not one of thoughs thing that should be expected. But I still cant help but feel bummed about it. Plus the hole swine flue thing was going on when I had Devon I barely had any visiters in the hospital because my Mom told my friends not to come :( The day my husband was supposed to pick us up from the hospital my parents decided that he needed to eat (which he did) and he was two hours late. I spent two hours with a suit case on my lap while I could have been sleeping while my baby was sleeping. A nurse came in to talk to me and I started bawling. I just feel like I was compleatly forgotten about. Not even just me but my brand new first baby. I always went to the hospital the day I herd my friends had there babies. Am I being silly? Do I just need to get over it and move on? Or do I have a right to feel this way. I always thought I was a really good friend I cant help but wonder where are all of my really good friends? Has anyone elts been through this?