Sativa - posted on 01/14/2010 ( 19 moms have responded )
Ok, I have read several posts from women that have lost their sex drive, but I have the opposite problem. I want it 24/7. I am constantly distracted with my own erotic thoughts. It is 3:45 am where I am at, and I am awake because I hurt him this afternoon and he told me no at bed time. I guess I should be honest and say that I hurt him because he is pierced and I got too tight after climax and crushed him. I know this is not a normal post, but how do I calm my libido? I am a faithful wife but my thoughts are wandering again. I say again because I was in this position 4/5 years ago, before I became pregnant with my now 3 yr old. Once i became pregnant, I kind of calmed down. However As soon as I had her, vaginally, once the post partum bleeding stopped, I was as ready as ever. I don't know anybody else with this issue. It has been 3 years now and it grows stronger. I know this is personal and I apologize for any discomfort anybody may have felt at reading this. Any remedys?