CYNTHIA - posted on 02/22/2010 ( 5 moms have responded )
ON VALENTINE'S DAY MY BABY GRANDFATHER CAME TO PICK HER UP FOR A FEW HOURS HE SAID. HE TOLD ME THAT HE WOULD BRING HER BACK HOME, BUT HE DIDN'T MY BABY FATHER CALLED ME ABOUT 4 HOURS LATER ASKING MY WHEREABOUTS. IN THE BACKGROUND WAS HIS MOTHER AND HE WAS RELAYING MY RESPONSE TO HIS MOTHER. IN TURN SHE WAS ASKING WHERE I WAS, WAS I HOME, AND COULD MY DAUGHTER SPEND THE NIGHT. I SAID NO BECAUSE WE DIDN'T PREPARE FOR HER TO STAY OVERNIGHT. IMMEDIATELY SHE WAS I GUESS UPSET BECAUSE I WAS NOT HOME AND I SAID THAT MY DAUGHTER COULD NOT STAY OVER NIGHT. SO SHE TOLD THE BABY FATHER TO TELL ME THAT I NEED TO COME PICK MY DAUGHTER UP BC IT WAS GETTING LATE.. I DIDN'T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THAT, BUT WHEN I GOT THERE THESE PEOPLE MADE ME KNOCK OUTSIDE OF THEIR HOUSE FOR ABOUT 20 MINUTES THEN THEY BRING MY DAUGHTER OUT THE OPPOSITE DOOR FROM WHICH I WAS KNOCKING. I TOLD THE BABYDADDY THAT I DID NOT APPRECIATE HIS FATHER PICKING HER UP AND NOT BRINGING HER BACK AS HE SAID. I ASKED WHY DIDN'T HE MAKE A WAY TO BRING HER HOME AND HE REPLIES "THAT HE DON'T HAVE A CAR AND HE DON'T HAVE ANY MONEY." I SAD TO HIM THAT HE WORK EVERYDAY AND THAT HE SHOULD HAVE MONEY BC HE ONLY HAVE ONE CHILD TO TAKE CARE OF. HE THEN TELLS ME THAT HE HAVE TO TAKE CARE OTHER PEOPLE REFERRING TO HIS UNEMPLOYED GIRLFRIEND AND HER THREE CHILDREN. Then he says to me, "Im not going to argue with you. You have YOUR DAUGHTER, now get out of my yard." The grandma say that is was my responsibility to get my child home even though the grandpa came to get her and said that he was going to bring her back. Im so stressing with this family because it is always soemthing with them. The mother won't allow her grown boy become a grown man. She said i provoked him to go off cursing and disrespecting me in front my daughter. WHAT SHOULD I DO?? MY SITUATION WITH THESE PEOPLE ARE ONLY GETTING WORST......