Christina - posted on 01/30/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )
ooking for opinions on when is it to early or late for someone to have a baby.... I think it is selfish if a person is too old or to young to have a baby. I was 19 when I had my first, not planned but it happened and at least my hubby and I were old enough to get jobs and support our family... for us it worked out but I still would have liked to be older when family. When I hear of high schoolers or even worse middle schoolers having babies it makes me sad, they have no idea what they are giving up ... and how many of those babies are raised by their grandparents??? on the other hand...My aunt had a child at 53 it almost killed them both, not to mention her youngest son is a month younger then her grandbaby... I think her having a baby at that age is selfish she will be 71 at her sons graduation if something doesnt happen before then???
I am sure there is a young or old mom out there that did a great job and my generalizing may be offensive but these are my thoughts and i am just wondering what you think is the right age?