Kryss - posted on 04/09/2010 ( 47 moms have responded )
Over the past few weeks "moms" have trully suprised me. I am unsure if it has to do with culture or what have you but,i guess my real question is wht is up with these rude mommys? First one i saw was bashing women who didnt breast feed- My own doctors told me that it was impossible for me to breast feed...was i a bad mom umm I think no, then it was cereal in the baby bottle...well i didnt put cereal in my sons bottle to make him sleep longer his PEDIATRICIAN told me to bc the formula wasnt enough for him and then a lady suggested thats why we have a "fat america" ...my son is underweight! Then here was the final draw for me they referd to it as hitting....well i believed in "spanking" my child...a swat on the rear is harm,less and NO they dont think mommy and daddy is hurting them...when my son threw a tantrum and there was not that many i let him have it out and then i DISCIPLINED him...if he back talked he gotr a spanking if he disrespected he got disciplined...those who think that they shouldnt let their child know their place ...what happens when your child smaks YOU in the face or bites you and furthur more my child never hit another child...i spanked my child on the rear so if he was going around "hitting" as some have refered to it on another childs rear it may make sense....My point is why are these moms attacking other moms??? Is it that they think their METHOD is RIGHT?? and i know all dont believe in God but let me ask for those that do when we as christians sin....does God just say "Okay..i saw wht you did but you wont recieve any discipline?" I do rewalize some take it too far but discipline has to be done in the right character...Since my son was 7 probaly talking wrks but you can bet if he did disrepect me or his dad he would recieve the discipline on his reaer end...i dont judge anyone but i wonder why these moms are pushing their opinions on other moms and then judging them on their disciplining their children........WE are ALL moms step back and look at your flaus we all have them..and remember you are not the mother of the other children so whom are you really to say...you dont know their kids and nother thing....for those who believe that it makes kids resent ....well perhaps those who resent were in actual abuse not spanking more on the lines of HITTING!