Jessica - posted on 02/15/2012 ( 88 moms have responded )
So my man is never the get you flowers for no reason type of guy or the one to even really get me something at all. The first time he really got me something was for Vday about 3yrs ago when I was preggo with our first child together even though we had been together and I had been there more for his son then his own bio mother was he got me a card that said "Love, Daddy, Travis(his son) Elias(my son) and baby. I thought was super cute. Then for xmas he got me a gift card to my fav rest. Red Lobster.......and an itunes gift card he picked up Xmas eve :/ ..... Last Xmas he went all out to propose to me it was super sweet and thought full. For Vday last yr he got me clearence flowers that were half dead and picked up dinner so I wouldn't have to cook which I thought was sweet ... This time of year we are very short on budget because he owns his own AC/Heating company and it's slow but I was still very happy to get something and the thought of him picking up dinner so I wouldn't have to cook for a family of 6 was very sweet, BUT this year NOTHING no flowers no card NOTHING!!! I knew I wouldn't have the money to get him anything so I bought a card a month in advance and made his favorite cookies in the shapes of hearts and made some that said " I ♥ U" just for him .....very cheap but loving way I thought for Vday...but I got NOTHING...i know he had money cause he went to the store got some things and came home with about $60 in his wallet I know we don't have money, but a $2 carnation would have been nice..Am I in the wrong for feeling like this? i just feel like he didn't give me any effort after all I do i get NOTHING for Vday not even a 1.99 card??? He knows I'm not about the money I don't need a $100 ring just SOMETHING ANYTHING would have been nice.....