Brittany - posted on 09/16/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )
Well I came to florida to visit family on vacation when my husband at the time called and told me he wanted a divorce. Leaving me and my less then one year old son at the time stranded with no options...since we have been living with my parents and struggling to move on with our lives. Soon after I met an amazing guy who I have been with now for 5 months. Our relationship is great. We respect each other and are really in love. For the first time I feel like I'm in a posotive relationship that has a pretty good future...my only concern is for my now 18 month old son. He loves my boyfriend and started calling him daddy. My boyfriend adores him and doesn't mind at all and treats him just like one of his own in every way...(dirty diapers and mid night feeds and all :D)...which I'm not used to at all because the biological father was never an active father from day one...he always left me doing all the work while he went out partying with his friends. Our son has always been like a trophy for him...just for showing off in public but behind closed doors he just wanted to put him away...my sons biological father is living in another state now and has no plans of coming to see him or providing any monetay support. He calls about once every three weeks to talk to him but has no other involvement....I love my son more then anything and wanted him to have both his parents but since that's not possiable is this ok? No I'm not trying to replace his biological father with anyone...I've givin his dad a chance to be there but he is in no way interested in that.