Kimberly - posted on 12/02/2010 ( 8 moms have responded )
How can I nicely tell my in-laws and Grandmother in-law to back off and listen to me?
We just spend a week with my in-laws entire family and i about lost it 50 times. My fiance's grandmother would not listen to me with anything I was telling her in regards to my daughter and her schedule.
I would say it was too early for my daughter to go to bed and she would say No it's not, it's fine and go lay her down anyway.... I would say it's not time for my daughter to eat and she would go and feed her anyway... EVERYTHING went like that, even down to changing her diaper when it wasn't necessary...
My father in-law would give her things i would tell him i didn't want her to have and say it was okay... it was driving me crazy and they do it every time i see them.
How can i politely tell them to KNOCK IT OFF?? i brought it up to my fiance and he just laughed it off and said i was imagining it all happening!
I'm at a loss, i don't know what to do, and we are going to be spending a few days with them in 2 weeks and i don't want to go through the same thing again!