Lindsey - posted on 01/10/2011 ( 10 moms have responded )
I have been a single mom for almost 4 years and the bio-dad has not called or tried to contact his kids for any reason in 7months. I need to know what to do, should I go to court and try to get full custody or just not worry about him and just go on with our lives and wait until he calls? I never know when his mother is going to show up at my house wanting to see her grandkids and not even calling or asking if I have plans to go somewhere when she comes by. She just comes here any time and stays as long as she wants without any consideration for me or what I might want to do with my kids. My kids father was always verbally violent and abusive to me when we were together and i'm afraid to say no to his mom because i'm afraid she will tell her son and then he will call me and be abusive over the phone and I can't handle that after 6 years of living with that before. Please tell me what I should do!