Misty KK - posted on 10/13/2011 ( 3 moms have responded )
My husband's ex, the mother of my step children, let them do whatever they pleased with no moral or structure. The 14yo boy for the last 3 years swears, hits, lashes out and still throws baby fits. The soon to be 11 yo girl still wets herself and acts like a baby and refuses to clean her self up. My husband and I have had full custody of them for the since my son was a month old, my son is now 27months. The teen is so bad that he steals(stole a car from school), break things, says F*** u to any one who tries to help him and has complete lack of respect and moral. We recently with me expecting another child sought mental help for him and his biological mother removed him and now has both kids at her house. She is now letting him smoke, drink and run the streets. Major problem! My issue with this post is to ask how to reverse the influence he made on my 2 yo. My little one has become demanding and will punch and smack and scream at people to get his way as his brother did. This has me worried, will this be possible to reverse? I am not raising my lil guy to be this way, he still has manors, but his fits have influence written all over it... WHAT SHOULD I DO?