Christina - posted on 06/03/2010 ( 1 mom has responded )
Ok so here is the deal. My husband has an 8yr old son who he has had custody of since he was 3. He then had a daughter with a "whack job" that is not at all pretty to look at because he used her for money ( I know this sounds bad) I'm 30 and he's 24. Everyone makes mistakes...right? Anyway the "whack job" got pregnant on purpose ...of course......Now she is making it hard for him to see his daughter because we ended up getting married and having a son of our own. My husband and I are best friends and love each other very much. Our child is the only one out of the 3 concieved out of love. When my step-daughter comes over she is "daddy's little girl" and it's obvious her mom does not make her listen and lets her do whatever she wants. My husband and I do correct her but I do not in any way put my hands on her as she is not my child!!! (thank god) When my husband has visitation it's like there is tension all through the house and it's Tianah's world and she can do no wrong. My husband will correct her ....but. My son is only 3 mos old and he shows him attention and affection. He is short with my 8 yr old stepson. It just seems like he loves her more than any of his other children and him and her mother can't be in the same room for more than 5 min w/o ripping each other's heads off. Maybe I'm just seeing things but my own stepson feels the same way. And when she leaves the house it's nice and peaceful again. I love the little girl she can be good but when I see my husband give his child he had with a horrible woman more affection than his other two....the third being me the love of his life who gave birth to his third son .......It bothers the heck out of me!!! Am I a bad person for feeling this way??? It's so hard!