Texting Hubby

Sarah - posted on 07/06/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )

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I am 24 and my husband is 37. We are very different in some respects, but also very much the same in others. Last May (over a year ago, I know) I was using my husband's phone to call my mom when a message came through. It was from a girl. And it was NOT appropriate. I instantly felt anger. But I calmed myself and thought that maybe it was one sided, maybe my husband wasnt partaking in her enjoyment. (And I was, afterall, 7 and half months pregnant, hello hormones) But when I looked at the rest of the conversation, I was dismayed to find that it was not one sided after all. My husband had started it, even. Now, I can look up who he texts and when, and I should never have figured that out, because, now I use it. A lot. And I hate, because I am so frequently hurt by it. I have never approached him with this because he has such a bad temper. I know he would throw both me and our baby out, then rethink it a couple days later and apologize, but there is NO WAY he wouldnt sleep with someone else in the meantime, in which case, I would never touch him again. I do not find that to be appropriate, either. I have prayed and prayed for the Lord to help me with this. But I am still standing here, in a puddle of my own tears, waiting for help. Please someone, help me. I am a thousand miles away from every bit of family and friends that I have. I cant just leave and never look back. Please help me.

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Chaquitha - posted on 07/06/2012

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So once u f***ed u just messed up. And yall married, u get half of everything. U best to tighten up and stop all that crying. Don't make no dam sense being wit someone who would cheat on u or who don't want u. Chile that could not be me cuz my husband would be getting the business. I'm not saying go do none of what I'm saying, na! That's just wut I wuld do and remember there's always room for reconciliation. Couples be like that sum time

Chaquitha - posted on 07/06/2012

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U could leave or u could stay, either way u have to think about what's best for the child. That's army reasonable advice. Now sum down home sister girl advice. I ain't no punk and down for wut Eva! I would have confronted his blankity, blank, blank off rip. Girl I would of been forwarded them texts to my phone from his number as proof. Called the female up, conversed peaceful. Cuz it she probably didn't know he was married. But that will be just to get mo info outta her, unless she get all slick out the mouth. And please put me and my child out. In this day and time there aren't any 2nd chance

Medic - posted on 07/06/2012

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Ok.....well the only way to deal with it is to put your big girl panties on and talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel and how all of this is hurting you and turning you into a person you do not want to be.

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