Emma - posted on 07/27/2009 ( 73 moms have responded )
ok.. so ill start by explaining my family situation.. i had a 1 1/2 yr old boy when i met my husband but he took him on as his own.. our son has never known any different.. and me and my husband have a 10 months old daughter together.... our son is 8 and has ADHD. we are finding it extremely hard to cope with him. it is taking a strain on us as husband and wife.. he is very insensitive towards me and says very hurtfull things that you should not say to your wife.. tonight is the worst night so far... He said that i let things get to me too much and that i need to learn to take things in my stride.. well that caused a full scale argument in which he said he does not love our son and that he does not think of him as his own.. i was in tears and screaming at him that he is a bad dad and would leave our daughter screaming and hungry in the morning just to get me out of bed as im fat and should not lay in. i said that i deserve a lay in because of the stress i get on the weekdays.. especially now its the school holidays.. i told him i needed a break. after alot more arguing he threw his beer all over me. well as im typing i have just got out the bath to get rid of the beer smell and am in bed by myself as my husband has decided to sleep on the sofa... i thnk our marriage is falling apart. im sorry to go on for so long.. i dont know what to do to sort this out.. thank you in advance for any help you can give.