Coral - posted on 12/09/2008 ( 1 mom has responded )
My son is just about 19 months old. My husband and I are in therapy to hopefully help us with our communication deficiencies. See, we were only married 7 months when Sawyer was born- our little surprise- so we didn't have the time to work through some normal newlywed angst. Our marriage is not in trouble but it needs a little 3rd party help. lol
My husband is a pastor at our church and recently I've discovered that I can no longer attend there as your average member. This is painful for me because I've been with this church for 27 yrs and I've only been with my husband (dating and all) almost 4.
When I had Sawyer I swore "no more kids" but now I can't stop thinking about having at least one more. Sawyer is such a pleasant child and being an only child myself I know that you miss out (a bit) when you don't have siblings. I guess I'd like some advice as to what some affirming indicators are that a second child is a good idea... does that make sense? I would like to hear what you think are some necessities to have in life (material or relational) before adding a second child to the mix.