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Kelley - posted on 07/28/2009 ( 19 moms have responded )

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my 3 children 2 girls one boy 's biological father molested them sodomized my son and even gave my handicapped daughter that can't walk or talk an STI (cured by 3 months of antibiotics thank God). The county where it happened are crooked and involved in drug sells with him! so I have been fighting for their protection and his arrest and conviction.I made up a petition and trying to get as many signatures to take to Montgomery to Troy King along with medical proof and their written statements and try to get this investigated. It is important because he is trying to fight to get his rights reinstated claiming he was not convicted. So if you could would you message your friends and give them this link to sign this petition!and sign it yourself LINK : http://www.ipetitions.com/petition/kckju...

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Claire - posted on 07/28/2009

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I have just tried to sign the petition and I had the same problem as Jean Trotter. I hope you sort this problem out because I would really like to sign it.

Mel - posted on 07/28/2009

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ahh your right. i think it was hard when he rang cause if mum wasnt home id tell him because i fell like i had to, when he called form prison and when he made stuff for mum and my bro he made stuff for me to always made me feel strange and angry. i havent seen him since the day i went to the police station when i was almost 13 and i dont want to i think it would just freak me out. I got compensated for it though big time. sorry you had to wait so long before talking to anyone about what happened to you xx

Nichole - posted on 07/28/2009

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Aw...Melissa that is terrible that you had to live with this man. I can not believe your mother, that is sad. People who do things like this don't deserve to live.

Mel - posted on 07/28/2009

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sad story Nichole. i told my mum at 11 only as a last resort because i wanted it to stop but she didnt believe me, so at 13 i got up the courage to go to someone at high school and he was convicted my mum went to see him every weekend and when he got out she played happy family with him and my brother without me involved, not that i wanted to be anyway. i guess every parent deals with things differently. we have a fantastic relationship now as they broke up when i was 15

Nichole - posted on 07/28/2009

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I just wanted to say I just read the very long reply Kelley and I agree that most parents don't know until the child is an adult. I started doing drugs at 16, had sex at 17, started stripping at 20, started doing porn at 22. By 22 I was a very heavy drug user, in the hospital a lot for over doses, my parents couldn't figure out why. My mother was in therapy and was talking to her therapist about why I was doing all these things and he told her that most children that act out like this until in there early adult life and some even there whole have been sexual abused. My mother finally asked me at 22 right after I had been to rehab and got clean if I was ever touched by anyone? I, in fact was molested by fathers father. He was dead at that point and nothing could be done..My mother freaked out a little, I was her first child but now that she looks back on my childhood she knows why I had a blank stare all the time and why I did some of the things I did. But I will definitely agree that parents barely ever know what is going on.
I wish you the best and I hope that man gets put away for a long long time. Those types of people deserve to suffer and never be let of jail but we can't make the judge do that. I did sign your petition!!! :)

Charlie - posted on 07/28/2009

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i am not sure i just used the link although i think there have been a few hiccups with the link for some people .

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well that is strange because it came up a message



"Ooops... invalid or missing petition page.



You've tried to look at a petition page that does not exist on iPetitions.com or it is not yet up and running. You can try searching for this petition on our Search page. "



Whats the name of the petition?

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I just tried to view it but it wouldn't allow me. I'm assuming because im not living in America- I can't view or sign it. I don't know if its much help with international signitures on it.

Good Luck though!

Mel - posted on 07/28/2009

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im trying to melissa :) i dont think i have broken the guidelines I hope not anyway. also want to say Kelley i am sorry you have a speacial needs child and understand that would be very difficult as well.

Kelley - posted on 07/28/2009

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I am sorry to hear that Sara but thank you for your support and frankly i thank you for making that point because if you read the conversations before yours that is exactly what i was trying to say!! All in all i have found moms on here very supportive which i really needed! when you go through something like this you need as much support as you can get and I am truly thankful for it !!

Melissa - posted on 07/28/2009

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Ladies I understand this is a heated issue remember the guidelines, even when you do not agree.

Mel - posted on 07/28/2009

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your entitled to your opinion about me and i am entitled to mine. yes it happens alot more then it should and most people dont report it because they feel guilty or think they are going to get in trouble. im glad you found out early. i dont have complete faith in the courts as you say my mothers boy friend only did 17 months behind bars after getting out for good behavior there was only evidence of him molesting one person though. so i dont believe the punishment is harsh enough for sex crimes but i do find it hard to believe they will do nothing about it even if it is a small area because any normal person would because its so wrong on so many levels. well i hope you get what you are hoping for

Kelley - posted on 07/28/2009

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He is a sick drug addict freak sara!! the sad thing is most molestation is from fathers and uncles and grandpas !! very rarely a stranger My mind just can't comprehend it .Thats why i wish I could hurry and get justice so i wouldn't have to constantly think about it and maybe my kids and i could have a normal day again!! Pray for Justice prevails and that he gets busted for everything he has done.Befor he does it too someone elses child thank you

Sara - posted on 07/28/2009

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eh my god how cud a father do this 2 his chrildren sick i hope they put him away forever

Kelley - posted on 07/28/2009

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First of all My oldest daughter cannot talk!!!!! So no there was no way for me to know! secondly my youngest daughter told me as soon as she returned home from her fathers!! thats how I found out!! My son is the one that had a hard time telling because he was scared!! His father told him he would go to jail too!! and obviously i do know therefore we would not be having this conversation! I would be careful to prejudge what you would and would not know! The funny thing is I myself was a counselor for years to young girls and 8 out of 10 were sexually abused by someone in their life !! and out of that scenerio none of the mothers knew! you need to brush up on your statistics because most cases of sexual abuse the child never tells and no one knows till adulthood! My daughter came to me because i had always taught her about good and bad touches. I in fact admit i would have never expected it to happen to my son! that was something i was not very familier with!! and in fact my story is hard to believe that why in fact a guy that did something like that wouldn't be in jail!! but again i say check your info because most predators do not get prosicuted. Go to your local DHR child advocacy center and ask howmany cases this year they had of child molestation (where the children gave testimony they had been molested then ask out of that number how many were arrested or prosicuted !! i think you will be very shocked!! and if it wasn't shocking (hard to believe) I wouldn't be on here telling people and fighting all day everyday calling and fighting this!! I DO IN FACT HAVE MEDICAL PROOF MY SON WAS SODOMIZED AND MY DAUGHTER IN FACT HAD AN STD !!! but it is people like you that is the reason kids don't get help! children don't make things like daddy squirted lotion out of his wiener on me mommy ! UP and moms don't stay up every night till after 3am searching the internet for advocates and help for a lie . I in fact am a great mother and i left the sick freak when my baby was newborn because in fact i am a great mother and raised 3 little babies by myself one that i had to feed bathe change hold her head up for her to this day!! and the courts that you have so much faith in gave the drug addict visitation to begin with or he wouldn't have seen them and his parents were supposed to supervise!! for you to say the thing you are saying to a mother that has gone and is still going through what i am .proves to me that you are in fact a heartless person or just terribly ignorant

Mel - posted on 07/28/2009

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i have a heart. im very strong on sexual abuse. I just found your scenerio a little hard to believe because if something as aweful as that happened the guy most definately would go to jail. I know alot about sexual assault and abuse infact I wanted to be a sexual assault counsellor. I am not heartless. I just wont sign the petition because like others have said there is no actual signatures it will not work. I believe the abuser and the parent are responsible for sex abuse, you cant not know what is going on. I would definately know if it happened to my daughter. Children start behalving different once sexual abuse starts, they show signs of promiscuity, and they ask questions and make comments innapropriate for their age, or they become withdrawn, and either overly clingy to the abuser or scared of them.That is my opinion

Kelley - posted on 07/28/2009

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excuse me Melissa but That is exactly what I am doing is going to people higher up that is why I want to take voices of others with me so that people will listen!! It is hard for me to believe that as a mother you could be that cold and unconcerned i am sure if it were your children you would post it as many times as you saw fit!!! You need to put your self in someone elses shoes !! you might be tired of seeing my post but i am fighting for the safety of my children and a place for mothers I would think would be the place to go!! I hope that you never experience desperation or fear like this for you children but if you do feel free to ask for help as often as you would like and I will be the first to help. p.s. I own a home have a family my children go to school just picking up and moving with no job somewhere else or credit if i lose my home from leaving it in a time of no jobs and recession isn't quite that simple!!! and you smear your children all over the screwed up media and then tell me just to go do it !! come on have a heart!!

Mel - posted on 07/28/2009

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please stop posting the same thing over and over its not an advertising board. please take others advice and go further up or to the news or the paper or a different state. do the right thing for your children

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