Heather - posted on 05/24/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )
I am 28 years old, and my boys are 7,8 and 9 years old. I had my babies early, and close together. My husband and I decided that 3 kids in 3 years is plenty, and so I got my tubes tied. I DO NOT regret that decision, as it was the best for us.... BUT... now my freaking body is SCREAMING to have a baby. It consumes my thoughts, my dreams, my LIFE. I rationally DO NOT want another baby, but I can't seem to focus on anything BUT babies. All of my friends are just now starting their families, and it is hard not to think of that. I actually had a dream that my hubby got another woman pregnant, and when I told him about the dream, and how I was sort of bothered by the fact that he could still have kids, he even offered to get a vasectomy!!!! How is that for support??? I just want to know if any other mom out there has gone through this, and if there are any suggestions to getting through it. I am prone to depression, and I can feel it tugging me in that direction. :/ So how about it Mama's??? Is there anybody out there that can suggest ANYTHING???? thanks.