What questions should I ask my sons fathers new gf tommorow when i meet her for the first time?

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User - posted on 06/17/2012

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I understand, but as moms were are protectors, so another woman coming in and nurturing our children that we gave birth to can be a challenge. It is truly going to be a struggle, so be ready. But be kind, but don't take no crap either.

Watch the Stepmom with Susan Sarandon and Julia Roberts it might help your fears. I am sure you will make the right decisions. Good Luck!

Michael - posted on 06/17/2012

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yeah they have been dating for 6 months and my son seems to like her so i want to be as civil and nice as possible for his sake. I struggle with knowing hes going to be around another "mother figure" but I am remarried and my ex went through the same thing and life goes on. Thanks

User - posted on 06/17/2012

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Ok, lol! Well remember she is just a girlfriend, so just be cool, and listen to what she has to say first. She might be easy to get along with. I would ask just the basic questions like
* Where are you from
* How old are you with a smile.
* What type of work do you do
* So how'd you guys meet and so forth. And from that conversation if you think that she is going to be around for awhile. Then ask her if she has any experience with children, and if not, just tell her what type of mother you are, and what you expect.

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Michael - posted on 06/17/2012

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hahah no im his mother, but yes, i have a boys name. I had my son when I was 21 but his father and I never got married. We both agreed to meet eachother's significant others before they met Dylan but he went and let her meet him behind my back so tommorow the three of us are meeting for coffee.

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Ok I am confused may you could clear this up. You said what questions should you ask your sons father new gf. Not being mean or anything are you a guy? Help me out here.

Michael - posted on 06/17/2012

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We are sitting down for coffee, her, my and I. I can't just say hello. I want to know her intentions with my son

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