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what to do when u feel enough is enough with a dad

Jeni - posted on 02/16/2010 ( 1 mom has responded )

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My 3 yr olds dad, the other daay called me worthless. we are not together never were. just have a kid together. He was mad because one weekend i couldnt bring my son 2 hrs away so he could drive 30 min away to get him. then this last weekend he didnt call back or anything to get his kid when the whole weekend he was a block away. i drive 2 hrs and he drives 30 min, and he called me worthless. The start, he didnt have anything to do with my 3 yr old till he was almost 2 yrs old intill i went to treatment. now he thinks he is king crap about it.. when i am the main parent and i am mom. Moms are more important i believe.. But hes calling me names when i do everything. he thinks its about im because he pays child support. i have family that live in oregon i live in minnesota right now and i have thought about moving there and not telling him about it.. When is enough, enough???? Im asking for advice i dont know what to do....

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Louise - posted on 02/17/2010

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well you seem to be in a bit of a dilema jeni,you must find it tough i do with my ex partner and his new girlfriend shes got more attitude then a monkeys bum! nehow if you have had enough and he is not making the effort or answering his fone simply dont call him let him make the effort and if he cant be bothered then id move seems that hes the onli thing keeping you there for ur child if it were me id go and be happy also seems that u seem to do all the compramising driving further than him he doesnt sound like a very nice guy if he is calling the mother of his child worthless im sure u are a greay mum and doing the best u can as like many mothers do ,if hes starting to not turn up for visits tho dont tell ur child they are going if hes turning up its a bonus if not its gutting for the child i went trough that it was heartbreaking. good luck and do what u feel is right you are after all the lone parent or sole parent the child lives with you .x

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