Clare - posted on 12/13/2009 ( 21 moms have responded )
hello everyone, sorry to moan and whinge but if i don't get it off my chest I could well break down and leave my partner. I was just wondering how men can just be so selfish, is it because they will never go through maternity and bearing children? Is it because there're hormones won't are different to ours!. My partner is soo annoying an example is if he comes home from work our 2 year old has left toys in our room, he throws it all in my wardrobe because he see's it as my respnosiblities. Agreed it is but its so childish!. I think he's even thrown sweets and chocolates in there!. He's the sort of person that can't stand mess even if its just a magazine on a table. I was always a very laid back person and happy, i feel now i 'm nervous to get home in case i've left something out. He will even complain if we're not home when he gets there. I work part time in the evenings for my parents and get a very easy life from them and he works full time. i get paid alot less and before my pregnancy he assured me he would financially look after us both. I'm too proud to ask for help but with your partner i shouldnt feel like that. Also why does everything stem from my fault, to feeding our(apparently shes unhealthy in his eyes)child, apparently our child is spoilt. I love my little girl but i feel so stressed and angry all the time that its not fair on her. REally are all men like this?????? Sorry for the nag!