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Why dont Parents care?????????????

Amber - posted on 01/31/2011 ( 5 moms have responded )

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I dont understand y parents dont care for there kids. i mean y lay down a have wat u dont want to take care of ?? I just want to say to the parent that take care of there kids that they r good and thank u.but to the parents that think of them selves to grow the F**** up and be an adult ur babies really need u to care for them and love them they didnt ask to be here in the first place so plz think be for u have kids they r not mistakes if u dont take precaustions and remember the r hard work and they r a blessin fro GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Tameka - posted on 02/08/2011

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If you look really hard you will often see a pattern. If the parents weren't looked after appropriately then they would have learnt these bad habits from their parents and will repeat them. I, myself, and am trying to break some habits too. I have made the decision never, ever, under no circumstance smack my children. I was raised with my parents smacking me (I think I turned out ok, lol!) but if I think about it, it seems a bit backwards. Also raising my voice at my children. Yes, children can be difficult, yes they can test your patience. But I wouldn't want to be spoken to like that. It is hard, hard, hard work to change and I struggle. Many of these people probably struggle too but couldn't be bothered to change anything. Those poor children...

Jodi - posted on 02/08/2011

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I think you will find that this post will fall on deaf ears because anyone who doesn't give a fuck about their kids is hardly likely to hang around on a Mum's community.

Hillary - posted on 02/08/2011

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I often feel similar b/c mothers my age seem so concerned with finding a babysitter so they can go do their own thing all the time. I have someone watch my son occasionally but more times than not I do everything with him. I love spending time with my family and am excited that we will be adding to it soon! I do understand your frustration though.

Mandy - posted on 02/01/2011

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Unfortunately there are lots of people out there that are like that. Its def sad when there are people out there like that and knowing there are people out there who can't have kids. I have heard people only have babies for the tax money. That is totally wrong... if you choose to have your baby and keep it you need to love and care for him/her. And they truly are a blessing from god!

Jannelle - posted on 02/01/2011

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This post seems completely random. Did something happen that upset you into writing this? Anyone who is on circle of moms at least cares enough to look for help and advice so is this towards a friend or family member? Hope you're okay because you seem to be quite upset over something.

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