Valerie - posted on 05/17/2012 ( 7 moms have responded )
My husband and I have been married for 5 years, and we have two beautiful little boys. Things aren't always perfect but I thought that, for the most part, we were happy. He is prone to looking at porn sometimes, which is fine by me. But lately I have had a sneaking suspicion that he is doing something he shouldn't, so I did something naughty: I installed a keylogger to see what was happening on the computer while I was asleep. There were the occasional porn sites, which, like I said, is fine. But there were also emails replying to ads on craigslist, numerous dating sites where he was receiving messages from members to "meet up", and the Facebook profile page of a girl he had an affair with 3 years ago. Should I say something to him, or should I be ashamed that I had to spy on him? And if it was nothing, won't my spying hurt our relationship more? I am really confused and super PO'd, I don't know what to do. Any input would be appreciated very much!