Megan - posted on 03/15/2010 ( 3 moms have responded )
I just gave birth to my first baby Feb 5th. I'm 21, and married. My husband has started playing world of warcraft again. He used to play WOW with my little brother and I before I got pregnant, and after I found out, we both quit to save money.
We're currently living with my parents. He got laid off last year and hasn't been able to find anything (or isn't motivated to find anything, I'm not sure which at this point.) Anyway. Our daughter is about a month and a half old now. I had a C-section and because of all the complications I had before and after my C-section, my doctor told me not to drive until my postpartum check up which isn't until next week. My daughter had her 2 week check up today which I had to reschedule again. I've had to reschedule that appointment a few times because my husband wouldn't get up to take her. He claims he's tired from getting up with the baby all night. But, according to my other family members who are up during the night because of their schedules- He's just sitting on the computer playing WOW and ignoring our daughter.
I have tried to sign into the account to cancel it, but he's got it synced to his IPOD so he can't get hacked- Which also means I can't get in to cancel the subscription.
I don't know what to do. I work from home, taking care of a family friend who needs 24 hour care, and taking care of a very needy handicapped person and a very needy newborn is almost impossible. I'm relying on my parents and siblings to get by right now.
I don't know what to do. I've tried talking to my sister, and my mom, but none of us are coming up with any solutions. I've tried to talk to my husband about it, and he replies with things like "Well, why can't YOU get a job?" or "Why aren't YOU doing (insert task I asked for help with)". He never used to act like this. It's a new development since we've had the baby.