Stacy - posted on 06/14/2012 ( 11 moms have responded )
Well here's the situation....
My First child has my last name because me and her dad were never together. So now I'm pregnant with my second child by a different father, we are not married at the moment and are not planning for awhile. My first born daughter is 6 yrs old and has my last name. So I'm freaking out about giving my 2nd child her fathers name since we are together. Mostly because I don't want either of my child to fell not a part of my family or feel like an outcast because they have different last names. So do you think that it is better for my 2nd child to have my last name because there is no way that my first child's father would allow her to have my current boyfriend, and father of my soon to be 2nd child, last name. Here is my thought I keep my last name and just give my last name to my new born because i don't want my 1st child to feel not apart of our new family or feel neglected because she has a different last name. I'm so stressed because I never wanted to have child by 2 different father's but life happened and I just want both of my kid to fell equally loved and excepted and feel joined together because whether they have different dads they are equally both my kids. Help please any advise would help tyvm :-)