Jessica - posted on 03/20/2012 ( 13 moms have responded )
My son's father and I have been together for 6 years and 5 months. His family and I don't get along for nothing. His sister has been the only pain in my ass. She have been the common factor of my relationship with my bf always arguing.. Anyway throughout the years we have been together his sister have done a couple of stuff that is plain disrespectful. Never a day my bf step in. His sister have ruin my pregnancy experience.
Then it comes to his parents. His parents goes along with his sister. They also don't want to make an effort to see my son. They expect us to go to them. Well anyways every time his family is around I always get into an argument with them and he don't even say nothing. Like he's completely OK with them disrespecting me and them disrespecting my son. I'm the mother and I can't accept that my son is second plate to them. They love my bf ex gf and her daughter(no that's not my bf daughter) My son is the only kid and grandchild.
How would you react if your bf sister prefer to be fake aunt to a child that isn't your bf? If she would tell you that she's not the aunt of your baby. Insult your relationship and your wedding? How would you feel if your future in laws tell you they hate going out and that's why they don't want to come over the house to see their only grandchild but yet they go out to the beach and other places? And your bf don't want to defend you or your child. Would you still want to be with him?
I feel like I'm always second plate to him and his family feelings is always first. He don't want to tell them we made the dicision to stay away from them they think it's my decision and I'm the bad one and I'm the bitch and blah blah and he doesn't say one word. If he would say well if you treat her more with respect maybe we could all talk but no he doesn't I am sick and tired of them and all I really want is for them to leave me and my child alone. If they want to participate then why just ask about Christmas or a birthday. Umm that includes everything. Where are they throughout the 365 days. M son don't need anything from them and if he does. Most likely he needs time.He don't need to be shower with gifts or perhaps money. My bf and I have gotten into it yesterday. I a completely tired of arguing about his family. I would love for him to say we decided this and that and that's why we chose to not be around you.