y das no 1 take yung mums seriusly

Rhonda - posted on 07/07/2009 ( 93 moms have responded )

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evry wer i go ppl stair at me and mi 4 kids. y can t i hang out wit my home gurls out side 7-11 gettin smokes wit out ppl lookin at mi and mi kids?

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if you learned to type properly then I would gladly offer you support. as it is i can't freakin understand what you are writing. if you speak as well as you write maybe that's why no one takes you seriously. make an effort in life and you will get better results from people.

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Nichole - posted on 07/09/2009

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Quoting Hayley:

haha I love that you can't speak or spell a word of proper English yet you have managed to use punctuation in your posts! If you had 4 children you wouldn't have time to be on the computer...but if its attention that you're after well done you've got it!


Ahhhh. Hayley, thats good for catching onto that. She does use punctuation and properly..haha.



Like I said before FAKE FAKE FAKE...

Hayley - posted on 07/09/2009

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haha I love that you can't speak or spell a word of proper English yet you have managed to use punctuation in your posts! If you had 4 children you wouldn't have time to be on the computer...but if its attention that you're after well done you've got it!

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Quoting Michelle:



Quoting Nichole:




Quoting Michelle:

I didnt event think it was possible to get pregnant at 10, i was an early devaloper and i didnt get my first period till i was 13. I have a baby girl and the thought of her having sex and giving birth at 10 makes me want to be physically sick. I mean seriously how does a child give birth to a baby, im sorry i just cant get my head around it.







One of the moms on here searched it on wikipedia and it gives you ALL children who had children at early ages...I highly dought Amanda...sorry Rhonda had a child at 10, 11, 12, 13, 14...








FAKE FAKE FAKE!!!









I didnt think it was medically possible to happen, i dont believe for one min that a 10 year olds body could carry a child to full term, its hard enough to carry that wieght around as an adult. I know there is a few women that feel sorry for this lady and give her advice but i have to choose not to believe this story as we already live in a corrupt world and if i believed this child had a baby then the world would make even less sense to me than it does now.





Yeah its just someone messing with us. It's funny though. lol

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Quoting Nichole:



Quoting Michelle:

I didnt event think it was possible to get pregnant at 10, i was an early devaloper and i didnt get my first period till i was 13. I have a baby girl and the thought of her having sex and giving birth at 10 makes me want to be physically sick. I mean seriously how does a child give birth to a baby, im sorry i just cant get my head around it.





One of the moms on here searched it on wikipedia and it gives you ALL children who had children at early ages...I highly dought Amanda...sorry Rhonda had a child at 10, 11, 12, 13, 14...






FAKE FAKE FAKE!!!





I didnt think it was medically possible to happen, i dont believe for one min that a 10 year olds body could carry a child to full term, its hard enough to carry that wieght around as an adult. I know there is a few women that feel sorry for this lady and give her advice but i have to choose not to believe this story as we already live in a corrupt world and if i believed this child had a baby then the world would make even less sense to me than it does now.

Nichole - posted on 07/09/2009

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Quoting Michelle:

I didnt event think it was possible to get pregnant at 10, i was an early devaloper and i didnt get my first period till i was 13. I have a baby girl and the thought of her having sex and giving birth at 10 makes me want to be physically sick. I mean seriously how does a child give birth to a baby, im sorry i just cant get my head around it.


One of the moms on here searched it on wikipedia and it gives you ALL children who had children at early ages...I highly dought Amanda...sorry Rhonda had a child at 10, 11, 12, 13, 14...



FAKE FAKE FAKE!!!

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I didnt event think it was possible to get pregnant at 10, i was an early devaloper and i didnt get my first period till i was 13. I have a baby girl and the thought of her having sex and giving birth at 10 makes me want to be physically sick. I mean seriously how does a child give birth to a baby, im sorry i just cant get my head around it.

Nichole - posted on 07/09/2009

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Quoting Charlene:

hi im sorry i dont realy want to argue but are your kids realy named that. is this a joke and if you hang out 7-11 at night with 4 children then no wonder young mum like myself get the looks we get we dont need it. i am 20 and pregnant with my second child i wouldnt dream of keepin my babies out that late and smoking around them. my son is in bed by 8 i think you should take some responsability. JUST MY OPINION






i nev said dat i have mi kids out at nite. never said dat. mi kids in bed at 7 cause i get tired ah dem yellin. i smok so wat dat dont make me a bad mum. wats rong wit da names ah mi kids?





OMG..You said in you rquestion you keep your kids out late. You said when you hang out at 7-11 you get looks with your kids...



THIS IS FAKE!!!

Amy Marie Rose - posted on 07/09/2009

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I feel the same way. Just because your young doesn't mean you are stupid and don't know how to take care of your kids. I did extensive reading before having kids I did the research that most mom's twice my age never did. I know what I'm doing so don't tell me I'm doing it wrong. Mind your own business you raised your kids now let me raise mine. I'm a little defensive on that subject.

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hahaha it takes alot of effort thats for sure. i couldnt not understand it if i had a few drinks i stuggle to get it sober.

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guys this is so not real. also, it would take real effort to misspell like that. well, it would for me!

Mel - posted on 07/08/2009

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Quoting Catherine:

Rhonda, What made you decide to join a group for mothers aged 20-30, whilst only 16 years old? Surely if you wanted support it would make more sense to join a teen mother group? You must of had the most terrible neglectful mother yourself to be deprived of a basic primary eduction, denying you the advantages of literacy and numeracy. I hope you can find the support that you need. Amanda ... sorry Rhonda, I wish you the best of luck!





 






I join cause i got 4 babes das mens i like 20 mature level. i wan talk to 20-30 cause not people 16 wit 4 kids like mi. mi maw is 29 and she very mature. she had me yung so wat. dat dont make her a bad mum. wes all yung maws so y all da judgin? wha is amanda btw?






ok so ur mum is very mature, but she told u it was ok to drink alchol in pregnancy and you went and gave your baby FAS? hmm yeah that works real mature she is. and to your other comment damien is not an uncommon name. my hubby is called damian. why are u pregnant agen if you already have 4 kids? how many daddys are there ? condoms are alot cheaper then supporting a child for 18 yrs. If i believed you were giving true information i woulquite happily support you and i may be wrong but i think you contradict yourself in your posts and that your whole account is a big joke. but keep it coming. im enjoying reading it :P

Charlie - posted on 07/08/2009

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WTF a group for mums age 10 - 18 is anyone else not completley disturbed by this !!! whoever these men are that impregnating 10 - 15 year olds ( 16 is legal but still young ) are friggin peadophiles , that is so wrong !!!!!

Cierra - posted on 07/08/2009

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You know the saying one bad apple spoils the bunch. It applies to being a young mother. There are some of us out there and I hate to say it should do a better job at taking care of their kids and stop blaming being young on their negligence towards their kids. I understand exactly where you are coming from because when my son had to have his transplant I was very wrongly stereotyped and all the doctors kept saying to me was no one is going to blame you this is a very big responsibility for someone your age are you sure you don't want someone to step in and help you? It really took a lot out of me because I feel that if you're a good mother no one can take care of your kids better than you can. We have to learn to ignore people. "Ignorance is Bliss"

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ummmmmm.... this is not real ladies. I can't believe some of you are actually giving her advice. WTF!?!?!?!









dis is not nice. lieke i said befor. I am a person jus like u. more importan i am a mum 2 and i jus wan to tlk to other mums












Whatever - this was funny until people actually started believing you. People are defending you, sharing their stories, and you're just taking the piss. Don't you have something better to do?!?!










if u dont got notin nice 2 say den jus go away. i don no y u don belive me. da only 1 say i was fake was da chick wit da babe in da pool picture. i don no y. dis is jus bazar dat no 1 think i am real. y is dis? i don get it. y do i got to explan mi self 2 u





'da chick wit da babe in da pool' is not the only one who thinks it's a fake account, and I see you've started a community for Mums aged 10-18 - perhaps you would like to take your questions there?? Oh that's right, because there's nobody there for you to wind up!

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Quoting Erin:

ummmmmm.... this is not real ladies. I can't believe some of you are actually giving her advice. WTF!?!?!?!







dis is not nice. lieke i said befor. I am a person jus like u. more importan i am a mum 2 and i jus wan to tlk to other mums









Whatever - this was funny until people actually started believing you. People are defending you, sharing their stories, and you're just taking the piss. Don't you have something better to do?!?!






if u dont got notin nice 2 say den jus go away. i don no y u don belive me. da only 1 say i was fake was da chick wit da babe in da pool picture. i don no y. dis is jus bazar dat no 1 think i am real. y is dis? i don get it. y do i got to explan mi self 2 u

Ez - posted on 07/08/2009

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Quoting Erin:

ummmmmm.... this is not real ladies. I can't believe some of you are actually giving her advice. WTF!?!?!?!





dis is not nice. lieke i said befor. I am a person jus like u. more importan i am a mum 2 and i jus wan to tlk to other mums





Whatever - this was funny until people actually started believing you. People are defending you, sharing their stories, and you're just taking the piss. Don't you have something better to do?!?!

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Quoting Erin:

ummmmmm.... this is not real ladies. I can't believe some of you are actually giving her advice. WTF!?!?!?!





Then don't waste your time here alright. Shame on her if she is taking advantage of us but there is no reason to believe she's being fake.





Actually there's a lot of reasons to think it's a fake account, as a lot of regulars on CoMs are aware. Just trying to give you the heads up but if you want to continue defending 'Rhonda' go right ahead.

Rhonda - posted on 07/08/2009

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Please tell me this is a joke.. Why would you take your children to 7-11 to hang out, and buy "smokes"? Is there no park where you live to let them play? And you are also encouraging that smoking is cool, which... it isn't.


u ever takin yekids to da store? we go to da park to but we go to da store as well an

Rhonda - posted on 07/08/2009

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ummmmmm.... this is not real ladies. I can't believe some of you are actually giving her advice. WTF!?!?!?!


dis is not nice. lieke i said befor. I am a person jus like u. more importan i am a mum 2 and i jus wan to tlk to other mums

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ummmmmm.... this is not real ladies. I can't believe some of you are actually giving her advice. WTF!?!?!?!


Then don't waste your time here alright. Shame on her if she is taking advantage of us but there is no reason to believe she's being fake.

Ez - posted on 07/08/2009

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ummmmmm.... this is not real ladies. I can't believe some of you are actually giving her advice. WTF!?!?!?!

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Please tell me this is a joke.. Why would you take your children to 7-11 to hang out, and buy "smokes"? Is there no park where you live to let them play? And you are also encouraging that smoking is cool, which... it isn't.

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if you want someone to take you for real then show them you are a good mom . but in my eyes you shouldn't care about what others think or how they look at you. as long as you are taking care of whats yours.It's never about what they think it's what your kids think are they cared for and happy. then bump the world. let them look. try asking them if they are perfect.


Good on you.

Jennifer - posted on 07/08/2009

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if you want someone to take you for real then show them you are a good mom . but in my eyes you shouldn't care about what others think or how they look at you. as long as you are taking care of whats yours.It's never about what they think it's what your kids think are they cared for and happy. then bump the world. let them look. try asking them if they are perfect.

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i dont got mi kids out late! y ppl sayin dis it aint true. i love mi kids and i tryin da best i can. mi mum help me a bit. i was tinkin ah goin back 2 scool case my mentor said i wold fare beter if i got mi gr 12. it is hard tho wit 4 kid u no. i tryin mi best and mi kids r happy. isnt dat all dat maters? dat they be happy and love?


im just going to assume this is real for a minute .well rhonda if you have your mums help it would be a great idea to go back to school or even just study something , it would help your children and be a good example for them to see mummy studying and working for something . im sure you could do it part time .

Mary - posted on 07/08/2009

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Guys... she's not talking about letting her kids out and roaming around at 7pm to 11 pm. She's talking about how people look at her funny because she's young and has four children and she can't even pick up cigarettes at the 7/11 (the petrol store) without getting looks.

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i'm 22 and to be honest hanging out at the seven eleven with homegirls sounds like a trip the kids shouldn't hang out on... I'm don't think people are looking at you because your young they probably are just wondering why your kids are with ya'll when ya'll are just chill'n and smoking... it's kinda like how you wouldn't take your kids to a bar... well I personally wouldn't take mine to hang outside a gas station and smoke with my girl friends...unless you mean you just picked up the smokes and went home and not hanging around...

Rhonda - posted on 07/08/2009

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i dont got mi kids out late! y ppl sayin dis it aint true. i love mi kids and i tryin da best i can. mi mum help me a bit. i was tinkin ah goin back 2 scool case my mentor said i wold fare beter if i got mi gr 12. it is hard tho wit 4 kid u no. i tryin mi best and mi kids r happy. isnt dat all dat maters? dat they be happy and love?

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RHONDA I'M NOT HERE TO JUDGE YOU SWEETIE,BUT I'M ALSO A YOUNG MOTHER I GREW UP BEFORE MY TIME I'M 31YRS OLD I HAVE A 17YR OLD AND A 15YR OLD,NOW U NEED YOUR EDUCATION YOUR KIDS WILL LOOK UP TO U SOON OR LATER.SWEETIE U CANNOT SPELL AT ALL PLEASE GO BACK TO SCHOOL HOW ARE U SUPPORTING YOUR KIDS,SMOKING AROUND THEM IS VERY BAD HAVING THE OUT LATE IN THE NIGHT IS WORSE.I DON'T THINK YOU'ER IN NO SHAPE TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR KIDS PROPERLY,DO U HAVE ANY HELP SOMEONE THAT CARE ENOUGH FOR U TO GUIDE U IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION OTHER WISE YOUR CHILDREN WILL BE DISRUPT BEFORE 18YRS. OR YOUNGER.DON'T YOU WANT SOMETHING MORE FOR YOUR KIDS A BETTER LIFE THAN WHAT U HAD GIVE THEM A CHANCE AT LIFE.I LOVE MY KIDS WITH A PASSION NOTHING OR NOONE COMES BEFORE THEM PERIOD I HAVE TWO BOYS BIO AND 3STEPKIDS ALL ARE GOOD KIDS I TEACH THEMTHE POSITIVE THINGS IN LIFE LETTING THEM KNOW IT'S SO MANY THINGS POSITIVE THEY CAN DO.MY SON HAS BEEN ON THE A&B HONOR ROLL 3YRS IN AROW GRADE.AVERAGE 3.5 ALL MY KIDS ARE A BLESSING IN SCHOOL THAT INCLUDES MY STEPKIDS BECAUSE HOW I RAISE THEM.IT'S NOT TO LATE RHONDA IS IT U CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN YOUR KIDS LIFE AND YOURS, WELL I'M HERE ANYTIME U NEED ADVICE OR TO TALK BUT TAKE CARE OF THEM BABIES AND YOURSELF GIVE THEM A CHANCE STAY OUT OF THE STREETS HAVE THEM IN THE HOUSE BEFORE DARK IT'S DANGEROUS OUT THERE.YOU SEEM LIKE YOU DON'T LIKE YOURSELF TO MUCH HOW CAN U SHOW YOUR KIDS LOVE IF U DON'T HAVE IT FOR YOURSELF AGAIN?HOW OLD ARE U WITH 4KIDS ACTING THIS WAY.

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I'GUESS CAUSE THEY DON'T TAKE THEM SELF SERIOUSLY RHONDA U YOU DON'T ACT LIKE YOU HAVE KIDS THEN U GET TREATED ON YOUR ACTIONS SO U ACT ON LIKE A CHILD THEN U ARE WHAT ANWSER TOO PERIOD!

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Quoting Mary:

Ladies please understand. I've gone to who profile and had a look and realised that she's actually a native Canadian. English is not her first language. It's in their culture to name their children after the first animals they see (I'm sorry if I have it wrong and you don't name children after the first animals you see) but they do definately name children after animals. To mock that would be a stab at her culture and an insult. We clearly would not like people saying these terrible things about us and our children. Please respect her culture and the right to name her children. Just because it is strange to us it does not make them stupid.





thank u so much. dis is so nice 2 see dis. i no i talkin bad and is hard to change dat. realy i tryin to be a good mum and i was wantin suport from da mums lieke me. i jus trien hard to be a good maw and i lovein my babes and das all dat maters.





Lmao I've gone to "who" profile... sorry bad typing is infectious! Just kidding. Look don't worry about other people. It is terrible that other mothers can be this horrible and imagine what their children will be like if this is the example they set. You just be the best loving mother you can be. Love is the best thing a mother can give to your children and you're right- loving your children is all that matters. True- your typing is a little difficult but that's ok. English is not your first language and if other people can't understand it then they don't have to take the time reading it. Smoking and drinking around children is bad and I'm sure you know that. But I'm not about to critisize you about spelling. I'm not the worlds best speller myself.

Rhonda - posted on 07/08/2009

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and 4 does dat make fun ah da name der is a man in my res wit da name runs with a gun. dis is his name and he is embaresd bout it case ppl lieke all u dat be makin joke

Rhonda - posted on 07/08/2009

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Quoting Mary:

Ladies please understand. I've gone to who profile and had a look and realised that she's actually a native Canadian. English is not her first language. It's in their culture to name their children after the first animals they see (I'm sorry if I have it wrong and you don't name children after the first animals you see) but they do definately name children after animals. To mock that would be a stab at her culture and an insult. We clearly would not like people saying these terrible things about us and our children. Please respect her culture and the right to name her children. Just because it is strange to us it does not make them stupid.


thank u so much. dis is so nice 2 see dis. i no i talkin bad and is hard to change dat. realy i tryin to be a good mum and i was wantin suport from da mums lieke me. i jus trien hard to be a good maw and i lovein my babes and das all dat maters.

Mary - posted on 07/08/2009

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Ladies please understand. I've gone to who profile and had a look and realised that she's actually a native Canadian. English is not her first language. It's in their culture to name their children after the first animals they see (I'm sorry if I have it wrong and you don't name children after the first animals you see) but they do definately name children after animals. To mock that would be a stab at her culture and an insult. We clearly would not like people saying these terrible things about us and our children. Please respect her culture and the right to name her children. Just because it is strange to us it does not make them stupid.

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Maybe because you are out so late with your four children, that needs to be in bed getting their proper rest for the next day. People my also stair at you because your are smoking with your four kids. Hopefully you will grow up and take better care of your children. I'm not calling you a bad mother, but I can tell that you have not grown up and you are also not ready to take care of children. If you was you would be in the house at a time that is healthy for your children and you would not be smoking around them at all. Good luck.


i neva said mi kids was out late, some bdy take dat out contects. and i neva herd smok arund da kids was bad. maw smok round mi and mi sis and 4 bros and we is all fine. i wana be good maw to mi kids but is hard to ya no. 1 babe got da FASD cause maw said was k to drink da colt45 but i did dat 2 much case my babe got da mesed brain and da bad behavor from da colt 45. i stop da drink case wat it did 2 my babe. stop da drink wus hard but my babes mater 2 much 2 me. i wus try to love dem so much tho. may go bac 2 scool ppl think more serios. but is hard to ya no. is so hard 2 make da changis

Rhonda - posted on 07/08/2009

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Where are you from??


am from res up in beutifol britsh clumbias broman lake 1st nation

Teal - posted on 07/08/2009

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Maybe because you are out so late with your four children, that needs to be in bed getting their proper rest for the next day. People my also stair at you because your are smoking with your four kids. Hopefully you will grow up and take better care of your children. I'm not calling you a bad mother, but I can tell that you have not grown up and you are also not ready to take care of children. If you was you would be in the house at a time that is healthy for your children and you would not be smoking around them at all. Good luck.

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I'm a young mum too. People take me seriously because I can spell... what did your last comment say?

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Quoting rhonda:




Quoting Natasha:

Rhonda.
You can't expect people to take you seriously when you type (and probably talk, I don't know) like that. I had my son at 16, I get the looks to.
How old are you?
Do you go to School? (if not you probably should start trying to)







srry all mi friends tlk lieke dis but yer probly rite tho. nope nah scool 4 mi. i am 16 turn 17 soon doh. dis hard to go to scool wit 4 kids and pregs. mi maw stoped in da scool at 14 i stoped in 13









Which child is in your pic??





das mi gurl shawntea, WAS Takin at pow dais

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Quoting Natasha:

Rhonda.
You can't expect people to take you seriously when you type (and probably talk, I don't know) like that. I had my son at 16, I get the looks to.
How old are you?
Do you go to School? (if not you probably should start trying to)





srry all mi friends tlk lieke dis but yer probly rite tho. nope nah scool 4 mi. i am 16 turn 17 soon doh. dis hard to go to scool wit 4 kids and pregs. mi maw stoped in da scool at 14 i stoped in 13





Which child is in your pic??

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LOL. I really hope you're not serious, because that would be funny. But if you are serious, then that's really sad, and you are the reason why.


y is da reson y?

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Quoting Natasha:

Rhonda.
You can't expect people to take you seriously when you type (and probably talk, I don't know) like that. I had my son at 16, I get the looks to.
How old are you?
Do you go to School? (if not you probably should start trying to)


srry all mi friends tlk lieke dis but yer probly rite tho. nope nah scool 4 mi. i am 16 turn 17 soon doh. dis hard to go to scool wit 4 kids and pregs. mi maw stoped in da scool at 14 i stoped in 13

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