Brandis - posted on 01/27/2009 ( 2 moms have responded )
im a semi new 21 year old mother with an 18 month old son. my life consists of diapers, poop, toys, mess and baths. im slightly over protective when it comes to my son, so i dont get out much with my friends or fiancee for that matter. i dont have many people that i truly trust to watch my son for a night, not even my mother cus she smokes and is always on the computer which i dont want smoking around my son. but even when i do go out to a club or a bar, i just feel uncomfortable being there when i have a son at home.he's always on my mind when i go out and it distracts me from having a good time. i want to be a good mother but i also want to enjoy my life as well. without being too selfish or needy of having someone watch him. any suggestions or advice???