
Jennifer - posted on 01/19/2011 ( 15 moms have responded )
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ok so i had a meeting with my sons school and they are telling me that they think hes got add adhd and a sensory problem.. im really not sure how to handle this one he is really off the wall and has no attention span he shakes his hands like crazy which is where the sensory issue comes in.. i dont want him on meds i dont think its fair hes passing the 1st grade i held him back last yr for a good reason and im glad i did.. however hes struggling this yr cause its more difficult is there a way to help him without meds.. just by doing a routine or do i actually need to drug my son.. my 5 yr old has add and hes on focalin.. my 7 yr old seems a little more serious and i do not want him on riddalin the school psychologist that he sees says he doesnt really need to be tested its my choice however i thought that the school can force you if neccessary if hes not forcing he apparently doesnt think its neccessary my son has speech pt and ot and i feel bad cause hes all over the place and i really dont know what to do any ideas how i can help him without getting meds or even tested any advice that can help me please..
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Karla - posted on 01/21/2011
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Why not get him tested and go from there? You'll get more info and maybe some options, and support. I don't think they can make you put him on medication. Is he disruptive to the class? Do you think he is ADHD? My son is hyper, easily distracted, fidgets all the time. Last year his teacher thought he should be tested. We did not, nor did our family doctor think it would show him as ADHD. This year the teacher acknowledged his behavior weaknesses but didnt suggest we test him. I think in our case he is immature.
BELINDA - posted on 01/11/2012
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keep your kids away form red food dies it will help and the number of food dies are 3,16,46,are the ones i found out that get my kids hyper and cut back on fried foods too it will help you to this is for kids with ADHD i have been at this for 16yrs with my son and 6 year with my daughter who also has other health problemes
Holly - posted on 01/10/2012
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@ Sharlene - I wish you good luck. We've been following the program for about 4 or 5 months now. I've been working with and educating his preschool teachers, grandparents, and friends. They armed me with great tools, talking points and support system. It has all been worth it!
My son is almost 4, and while there are still sensory issues we are working on with his OT, he is performing better in school now, he is able to sit through the various centers, he is able to control his emotions and responses much quicker. We aren't looking for any sort of perfect child, but its been great to be able to see the difference between an out of control child due to external factors and one that is an expected "3-year old" response because he's upset from not getting his own way or having to learn patients.
I put our entire family on the Feingold Diet. The easiest way to explain it is eating the way our grandparents probably did...before all the manufacturing, processing, and convenience foods were available AKA real food. The Feingold site provides a great way to explain what you are doing to different ages of people. I had a nice script to work off of to explain the dietary changes to a Toddler and a different one to use for the teachers and older family.
My husband and I sat him down and explained that we had a feeling that he was having such bad behavior because he was allergic to some foods and we were going to be making some changes to see if he felt better and was able to earn more "happy faces" each day. (Different subject but in short its the daily behavior chart we use). I told him that our whole family was allergic to food coloring (trying to keep it easy to understand for a 3 year old). We went through some adjustments at school, where he'd want to eat the same food as his friends. But I now have a good system worked out and have been able to find and provide nearly all the same menu items, just with no artificial anything and no preservatives.
Any time I make a treat for him (if a kid is having a birthday and bringing in cupcakes or cookies) I always bring extra for his teachers. The LOVE everything I make and it has really helped them see that I'm not off my rocker and that his food tastes better than anything they are eating.
Anyways, sorry this is so long. I wish you luck and patients on your journey.
Holly - posted on 01/09/2012
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Hello. Have you checked out the Feingold diet? My son also has sensory issues and some a-typical behaviors that really confused us for a while. I noticed a correlation to his moods whenever we had him on a long lasting allergy medication (the ones that last 12 hours). He was a preemie who has been on some sort of inhaler or steroid since he was 5 mos. old. I was thinking that the behavior had to be associated with all the meds in his system.
Through a long story of events I stumbled onto www.feingold.org. Its all about ADD, ADHD and hyperactivity and the link to food allergies or sensitivity. It has changed our life. We saw behavior improvements in about 3 days. The whole energy in our house changed. It's definately not an easy road but one that has the potential to help with no medications.
They have amazing content on the site along with some sections of books that can be downloaded before buying. I printed out the chapter of the book and was astonished by the similarities to my son that these other families were dealing with. It may be worth looking into.
Good Luck.
BELINDA - posted on 01/08/2012
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there are other med out ther for ADHD i have 2 kids on diffent typs and they work great my son get a shot ever 2 weeks its called raspidel the one my daugher is on is called METHYLIN and i have seen are great inprovement on both of my kids.i did not want my son who is 16 now on med when he was 5 yr old but the school teachers keep pushing him to explod so i home schooled him for 5 years and he is doing great its not always are kids it the teacher who really dont know how to be around kids whit ADHD i have leared that over the time the schools dont seam like they care untill you spet up and let them know .How you feel there are casse mangers for them to to help you out with the schools too.