Sex lives

Merry - posted on 06/14/2011 ( 20 moms have responded )

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How are your sex lives?!
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How often do you have sex, do you always want to or do you do it for your man sometimes?
Do you both enjoy extra sex-ular activities? (hand jobs, oral, anal)
Do you think you both have equal sex drives?

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√v^√v^√♥ - posted on 06/15/2011

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You know they have those butterfly viberaters? They sit on the ousdie of you and give pleasure. You could try that? They got high ratings. I think they come in different things to like a dolphin lmao



You wouldn't have to move from your chair or even insert....... lol

Elizabeth - posted on 06/14/2011

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Anyone ever try this position? Similar to head over legs but instead you put your legs in cross legged position against his belly. For some reason, muscle control for me is really increased.

Elizabeth - posted on 06/14/2011

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Speaking of laughing, when hubby and I were a relativly new couple, we were in the missionary position. I decided to mix it up a little and threw my legs over my head and put my ankles on his shoulder. He started laughing hysterically. Seriously, you're going to laugh. I guess he was just so stunned that anyone could actually get into the position.

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Both my hubby Will and I have a very high sex drives. I love anal sex especially when we have sex in the shower lettting the water run down my butt. I love giving him handjobs and blowjobs.

Stifler's - posted on 06/16/2011

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Crap lol we have sex once a week and it's boring. I always want it and he doesn't. I enjoy oral and hand jobs but i do not get why anyone would want anal even though we do it sometimes because he likes it. Oral sex is the best kind of sex.

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Shelly - posted on 03/14/2015

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My sex drive is high and I'm always up to go. :-) Love it rough most time with him holding my ankles and pounding or going doggie style. Always love extra play too, really enjoy giving bj and receiving oral if he knows how too.

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My hubby and I love doggystyle, missionary, and spooning positions. I love reverse coegirl too!.

Shannintipton - posted on 06/14/2011

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I am lurking around. How did you know. I am so bad off I can't even help myself if you know what I mean. I am screwed. or rather not screwed. LOL

Elizabeth - posted on 06/14/2011

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Shannin, I know you're listening in. Have you tried different positions?

Nichole, I have to go to bed (to sleep you perv) but maybe you could give Shannin some position recommendations. She has to watch out for her sciatic pain and disc problems which are going to be low back. Maybe if she was getting some she would lighten up and joke around every once in a while. lol

√v^√v^√♥ - posted on 06/14/2011

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Yeah.... if only my boyfriend could hold my fat ass up. Ok ok I got one. The first time I pulled out pillows to prop me up so I would be higher, it feels great and gives different angles a new shot....... he just stared at me like he didnt know what to do. He didn't. He tried getting on TOP of me, on top of the pillows. I started laughing and was like nooooo, your supposed to stay straight up and down...... poor guy

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I think it feels good to get a good work out during sex. It can be painful sometimes, but done right it helps get you into better shape and well, I miss that.... haha

My boyfriend tried licking my ear when we first got together but it was like a flick of his tongue on my earlobe weird thing and I lost it, laughing hystarically because it was silly instead of sexy lol

I've also had my boyfriend fart in the middle of sex on us and lost it....... that one is just a total kill joy. I may think they are funny but that's just wrong. It was an accident but stilllllllll...... ewwwwww

√v^√v^√♥ - posted on 06/14/2011

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I think it's funny when someone has a fetish and your trying to help them fufill it. Like the on the face stuff, or humping boobs....... It's hard not to laugh sometimes, and be into it as much as them

√v^√v^√♥ - posted on 06/14/2011

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lol well.... I was insecure for a very long time and one day I read something that said the only way to the truth was honesty. Like we all hid behind our insecurities, so if we were honest, there was no hiding. It really helped me get over everything and now I just don't know why we lie so much. If that helps anyone get an ephiphany? Ha

I love ephiphanies. For me, they are when I am really stupid for a long time and then wake up suddenly about 1 topic. I feel that light bulb come on.... and go wow, I've been dumb :)

Shannintipton - posted on 06/14/2011

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I love your openness. I wish and I am sure my husband too, were more like you.

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Yeah, too bad I got into a 'long term relationship' heading towards marriage before I got to try women. I told my boyfriend, if we ever go south, can we expirament first?

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Anal...... nothing special about it. My ex had a fetish for it and I am so glad my new one doesnt. I did do this with my new boyfriend once because he'd never even done it. But he was just like 'I don't know what to do' LOL it's a hole dear..... but I'm totally okay with that. Just thought he should try it, yanno? I like trying everything once.



I'm more prone to liking fingers lately too. Or licking. Whew, if a guy can do it right, yippeeeeeeeee.



How many positions do you try, Laura? If he's that into sex, I'd be pushing him all over try lots of different things. My favorite is on top, facing away from him, and laying completely down. Or on top, and sideways lately. A bit tricky but it goes in deeper and penetrates in a different area. Looove it. Totally perfect for lazy sex as you dont have to move much it seems for it to feel awesome lol



Oh and I don't know why but for whatever reason I get a sudden urge lately to give my boyfriend blowjobs. Who knows. Maybe its one of those weird pregnancy cravings lmao jk jk



When we got together, he told me he had never felt cum off of one.... I was like WHAT he said no, apparently they all sucked...... !?!?!? That's sad.. Had to show him right :)

Merry - posted on 06/14/2011

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We are just coming off of our 6 week abstinence post birth, but we had sex today at 5 weeks post birth :) well matt was SO horny from like 5 days after the birth on, he was ALl over me, staring at me, rubbing on me, sleeping all touchy all over me with his dang boner pushed on me!
So annoying, I have NO sex drive right now, I just had a baby. And even when I'm normal I have a low sex drive.
He has a high one. He would have sex like twcice a day or more if possible, I could go for like twice a month.
So today we had to use tons and tons of lube and it still hurt a bit for me, but he is so happy now and more helpful to me when he is happy. He gets so cranky when he doesn't get sex.
So it's not like I have sex just because he wants to, I want to, but I don't want it for the sex part, I want it because it makes him happy and energetic and helpful etc.
Idk, I worry I'm messed up cuz I don't want sex alot, but I think I'm just a young mom of two and I have other things on my mind.
But when I want it I don't crave sex, I crave a hand job :) I get like 5 big Os out of it usually. In fact that's what we did to get labor going the day Fierna was born! Castor oil and 5 nice orgasms :) worked well.
But yeah, I don't usually get much pleasure out of sex. I wonder if we do it wrong... We were both virgins when we married, who knows!
Anyways, I hate oral, both directions
Never tried anal, gross to us :)

√v^√v^√♥ - posted on 06/14/2011

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Once a week, maybe a few times more in between that schedule. It's dropped due to being exhausted and having babies. Also, not fitting in the shower together doesn't help. Nor does having two fat bellys touching when we cuddle lol we're both looking forward to getting healthy again in about a year so we can feel a bit more like human beings instead of caretakers :)

Sexularactivitius why yes, I love those
I think my sex drive is much higher than my boyfriends. When we first got together, I was so horny. I thought it would kick in more for him when he got a little bit more used to me but nope, he's good for once or twice a week. Whereas my last relationship we could have been classified as rabbits- morning noon and night...... midnight.... morning night....... noon night midnight....... midnight again....... sometimes I miss this, sometimes I don't. I think that sort of a high sex drive would have killed me as I've had so much pain and exhaustion becoming a mother. So, I think I'm good and we are pretty equal now that I'm fat and tired hahaha

Shannintipton - posted on 06/14/2011

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Boring answer. We don't have sex any more. Too much pain and medication lowers sex drive for both of us at the moment. But I still want to hear about everyone elses stories. tee hee

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