SIDS (sudden infant death syyndrome)

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hi iam a 23 years old and sad to say i lost my 3rd son to SIDS when he was 26 days old in april 2007... he was born the 1st and we lost him the 26th..

and than i had my 4th son 30th of april 2008 i have not had a good night sleep since little bryson was born i so scare that i will wake up one morning and little bryson will be gone to....

just want ot let people know it does really happen for no reason...

RIP my little boy Blair James Hawes mummy loves you alot...


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Ange - posted on 12/10/2008




Hey guys, i'm so sorry for your losses.. :( i couldnt imagine my life without my little girl.. I know sids does happen and can happen to anyone.. my daughter's great uncle from her dads side has had a pass away from sids and then 16 months later his sister (my daughters great aunt) also had a baby pass away from sids so it makes me very weary because its been in the family.. My heart goes out to all who have suffered a loss to this horrible syndrome xx

Tiffany - posted on 12/08/2008




Im so sorry for your loss, I know your pain. My daughter was stillborn in march of 2007. Keep your head up, some days will be tough but some will be great. He will always be a part of you and I really do believe you will meet again. And until then he will always be in your heart. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My first son was born asleep on April 12 2007. I know it's not the same, but I understand some of how you are feeling. I gave birth to a little girl on April 24 2008 and for the longest time I would be afraid of losing her even though she is perfectly fine. I still go check on her sometimes when she sleeps for a long time. I hope Bryson is doing well and good luck.

Carla - posted on 12/04/2008




I am sooooo sorry to hear that! To be honest, I always have wondered because I do NOT worry about Reino. My thoughts and prayers are with you!

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I am so sorry for you ladies who have experienced this horrible loss. I am so paranoid about SIDS, always have been . I have gone to such extreme measures as a movement monitor, "wrapping" the mattress and having baby sleep in her crib in our room. I hope you ladies can find some comfort in the memories that you shared with your little ones. My heart goes out to you.

Adriana - posted on 12/03/2008




I have also lost a child to SIDS and understand that it really happens for know reason Gavin Tyrone Elijah born on 4-29-08 was lost on 8-9-08 I admire your courage to have another child, and I know it may be tempting to be scared every moment til your newest child is in the 'safe zone' but try to turn you fear into awareness and cherish every moment as special. I know you already do. I wish I could take the fear away. If it helps at all I have been doing a lot of research and have yet to find a mother the has had to endure SIDS twice. I will pray for your baby and that your heart can find peace

Kelli - posted on 11/27/2008




I am sorry to hear that. I hope your recent son is still with you and you are enjoying every minute with him.
Take care

Nichole - posted on 11/26/2008




Hi Anita sorry to hear about little Blair. My little girl was born in the 4th april and I don't know what I would do without her. Izzabelle was born in a week of heartache for or family because her Godmother lost her daughter at 5 months 1 week to heart failure, just 2 days before Izzabelle made her safe arrivial. I think about little Layla all the time and I pray that she knows just how much we love and miss her..

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thank you for your mge... little blair will never be forgottan i have started a cause on facebook for him there photos and he story if you guys would like to join the cause is called in memory of my son Blair James Hawes.. please join...

Melissa - posted on 11/26/2008




Your loss is unimaginable. A friend of mine lost her son when he was 8 weeks old a couple of years ago. And after I had my daughter Marley, born April 5th, I thought about him all the time. Very sorry to hear of your loss. And congratulations on your little man Bryson. They truly are miracles.

Becky - posted on 11/26/2008




Hi anita I'm really sorry to hear about little Blair thats really awful I was just in tears reading that. My little girl was born 2nd April and was just looking at pics of her at that age. I hope you new baby boy is well. I can't start to think what it must of been like for you :(

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