Aggressive behavior with 10 year old son with Aspergers

Debbie - posted on 02/27/2009 ( 3 moms have responded )




For the past few months my husband and I have been dealing with aggressive behavior with our son. My son as literally hit my husband in the back of the head while driving, attacked me. He is very verbally aggressive as well.. We have no help.. seems few and far between, and all we seem to do is get the runaround by professionals. It's exhausting!! I really could use some feedback.. PLEASE! Thank you!! Deb.


Tania - posted on 03/18/2011




hi there , my son also has aspergers hes 11 and we have the same problem ...its very exhausting i know.
everyone suggest therapy but one for me its expensive two ive beenthere done that and hes still the same . we also got the roundabout , i also spoketo a couseller from autism victoria and well there info was a littltle helpfull im the one living it so i feel they can suggest all the like . i just wish some of these professionals come and had a week in my shoes . i also have a 4 yr old with aspergers and tourettes .
well im sorry if my advice sounds negative but if you find something that works let me know .
at the moment all i do is explain that this behaviour is not acceptable sometimes it works sometimes not , also taking away computer games etc.

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Lori - posted on 02/27/2009




Agreed! Look into ABA therapy. Applied Behavioral Analysis. Many states have children"s agencies which will provide you with a therapist who determines how many hours per week are needed and work with all members of the family and also teachers.

Jennifer - posted on 02/27/2009




My son is much younger but has a tendancy to hit and sometimes be violent. Behavior modification therapy seems to help a lot of kids and I would think that at 10 you can still use that. It's all about teaching what's appropriate and rewarding good behavior. It could be slow going but I hope it's helpful!

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