my son had disowned me

HALI-OR CRYZ - posted on 03/10/2010 ( 1 mom has responded )




when i was 15 i had a child, he was born dec 21st 1989, on the night before christmas i gave him up for adoption,open adoption- i did that for 1 reason, so i knew who he was and he could know me, i didint have to do it like that-and no one recognizes that, now his birth father has passed away, and i have been able to keep up with his life through myspace and facebook-and i told him his birthfather had passed, and have had a couple of conversations with him, but i listed him on my facebook page as my child, because he is my child-i amd the one that gave birth-he was my choice to have, and he sent me a message saying he is not my child, he has never been my child and to take his name off my page. i broke my heart all over again-the toughest thing i have ever done was give my child to 2 people i didnt know, and smile the whole tme like there was no problem-now on this page i do list him as my child-i gave birth-its my right. he has deleted his facebook page and i cant find him now, i always wonder if he is ok, or if he is doing something bad or wrong or if there was some way i could help him, am i wrong for feeling this way?


Carla - posted on 07/20/2010




I am so sorry, honey. Nothing anyone can say can take away the grief.

You will have to trust that his adoptive parents have taught him to be a strong young man, and that he is living his life. At 22 they are still immature; give him some time. You know in your heart he is your son, and he will always be your son.

God bless, honey, I pray your heart heals.

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