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Sand Castles and Snow Forts

Life as a single mom with my four children who have shown me life can be amazing if you live it with a little bit of laughter along the way. I’m all about being real. Join me.

Vanessa is a winner of Top 25 Book Author Moms - 2012

What tips would you give a mom who wants to write a book?

Start writing! I do believe everyone has a story in them. All it takes is one deep breath and then begin.

How do you balance writing and motherhood?

Balance? What's that?
Balance seemed to end after baby number 2, but a little chaos is what makes life such fun.
Seriously, the only way I survive as a single mom and a writer is that my coffee is strong, the toilets are clean, laundry... exists, and my kids are happy. We live to love and love to live, and writing is my job... I make money doing other things so we have all we need.

Where do you find writing inspiration?