Sex and BF

Amberlee - posted on 02/25/2010 ( 19 moms have responded )

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im wondering about sex while bf. my dh and i rairly have any anymore due to leaking, or squirting milk from my breasts..... im not even sure if dh notices but i do and it makes me feel akword.

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Jamie - posted on 02/26/2010

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I wore my bra and pads and simply said dont touch my breasts cause i will leak and i don't like it, and i simply said these are your sons boobs until he is done with them :) it worked

Mary1959 - posted on 04/09/2011

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my hubby did drank from mine. it help both way
i did not leak and he enjoy it

Christine - posted on 02/26/2010

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My LO is 5 months old and I don't wear a bra or pads anymore. I rarely leak, but I'm comfortable with myself and my hubby that if I did, it wouldn't be any big deal. Just trust that he loves you and there is nothing to be insecure about! Maybe if you talk to him about it you will feel better.

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Emily - posted on 02/26/2010

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wear a bra when your getting busy. I find that he likes them bigger and he knows that they may leak so he tends to not touch but he likes to see them.
or wear a cami.

Sarah - posted on 02/26/2010

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sometimes, when i really didn't feel like wearing a bra and pads, we'd have a little grown up time in the shower or bath tub after the kids when to bed. ;)

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I say use a bra if u want with a shirt... I think me sex drive jus left period..... Sometimes i tell myself it will change and get better.... So i am tellin u it willm get better

Rebekah - posted on 02/26/2010

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My DD is almost 9 months old and I still wear a bra and nursing pads 24-7. In fact, I never even thought about trying to sleep or have sex without a bra on.

Amy - posted on 02/26/2010

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I always wear my bra with pads, like everyone else is saying. My LO is 11 weeks old and I still leak like crazy, especially at night because she isn't eating as much at night anymore. He doesn't seem to mind, but I know he would like it better if the boobs were his sometimes, lol.

Mwrig133 - posted on 02/25/2010

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My 2nd bub is 9 weeks so I'm still wearing a bra and pads 24/7! But if I've just fed her, it's all good for the full nudie treatment!! Don't feel awkward. It's natural after all. Good sex is all about being comfortable with your body and revelling in it. Right now your body is doing the most amazing thing - norishing your baby. You are a Mother Earth Goddess!! LOL Enjoy your body and he will too!

Beck - posted on 02/25/2010

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Hehehehee I did get the comment the other night 'hmmm Corey didn't quite drain that one!" whilst Hubby was playing around! - hmmm oh well, we got over it. I dont have any leaking (bubs 11.5mths). It will settle and in the mean time I would wear a sexy bra or just 'go with the flow' (pardon the pun). I would say my hubby would hardly notice he is that preocupied or it would be something we just laughed off.

Hannah - posted on 02/25/2010

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i wear a bra and nursing pads unless i have finished feeding in the last hour. I know how you feel!

Sally - posted on 02/25/2010

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I don't feel like I need to wear pads anymore, but I still do. And I usually keep my bra on during sex. There have been a couple occasions where my baby had just eaten or I had just pumped because she wasn't with us, and I didn't have my bra on. My husband has actually drank milk from my breasts quite a few times. lol. There was one time where we got silly and squirted it everywhere! That was kind of fun. lol.

Danielle - posted on 02/25/2010

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Since my milk came in with my youngest I have to wear a bra. Before I delivered, my supply for my toddler was so regulated that I didn't have to wear a bra- now...well I let him take my bra off the one day and he ended up covered in milk but he didn't care so I ended up just laughing at him/with him.

Minnie - posted on 02/25/2010

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Up until my daughter was about ten months I wore a bra with pads inside. My supply is quite regulated now that she's 16 months old, so I don't have to wear a bra anymore.

Crystal - posted on 02/25/2010

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I know how you feel when me and my hubbers where able to have sex I never really leaked befor but then like a few mins. into the deed they where like jet propeled, lol it was funny all we could do is laugh and every once in awhile they leak but not as bad I just have to laugh about it and my hubbers laughed too it was the funniest thing to use but i was worried and still it gets to me but I think that if I dont have a postive out look on it then he's not.My body makes the milk for our son and its going to happen but he knows and dont mind...

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I definitely kept my bra on and stuffed with pads while I was leaking. Like April said when your supply regulates you probably won't leak as much.

April - posted on 02/25/2010

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the leakage will stop once your supply regulates. Even though I have not leaked in months, I still wear my bra during sex. Sometimes I even keep my shirt on. It's because I just don't feel sexy!

Adrian - posted on 02/25/2010

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I have to leave my bra on complete with pads. Otherwise I would leak everywhere. Not to mention I don't want my boyfriend to mess with them while I'm breastfeeding. I feel like they are only for feeding my baby right now. Have you talked to your husband about it?

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