
Talemence Jordano - posted on 06/22/2014 ( 12 moms have responded )
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I recently found out my son is gay. I don't think I can accept him anymore. I suspect he sneaks out of the house to spend time a boyfriend. I can't stand it because this is disrepecting God!
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â« Shawnn âªâ«â« - posted on 06/23/2014
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But is it YOUR job to judge your son, or is that God's job?
Because, as I read my bible, I see that God tells me that I do not love the sin, but I do love the sinner. It is my job to LOVE, not JUDGE. It is your job to LOVE, not judge.
If you would turn your back on your CHILD, God can turn His back on you. It is not yours to assign punishment for what you perceive to be a sin. Only GOD can do so.
I encourage you to re-read your bible, paying specific attention to what the Lord says YOUR duties are, vs. what He says HE will handle. Anything else is less than Christian
Analisa - posted on 11/13/2015
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Well, you're a piece of shit aren't you lol. I'll "pray" to "god" you end up in hell
Kelly - posted on 06/23/2014
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Seriously?! Accept your son for who he is!!
Notamom - posted on 08/13/2014
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Good for him :)
Anne - posted on 06/28/2014
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Talemence My heart goes out to you. I can not tell you I understand how you feel because I have not had this happen to either of our daughters. I can however tell you that our oldest daughter walked away from God for about 10 years. During that time she had several live in relationships. Her friends called her a "Serial Monogamist" During this time our job Her dad/my husband and I were to LOVE HER. I can tell you sometimes it was hard. ANy guy she was dating and she knew that they were welcome in our home but if they planned to spend the night it would be in separate rooms and beds. I had to learn to love her no matter what. Only the Holy Spirit can convict a person of their wrong life style, and lead them to Jesus.
If you have raised him according to Our Bible Gods Word your son already knows what he is doing is wrong. You do have the right to ask your son to move out of your home, but before you do this Pray and Ask God what you should do. You may be the only person that REALY LOVES HIM and the Only Pearson Living a Christian Lifestyle.
I have a good friend who's son has been "gay" for years.
About 5 years ago I has a chance to spend some time with my friend and her son and his "partner" When we were teens my friend had the most expressive blue eyes of any boy I knew. But the evening my husband and I spent with my friend and his family his eyes looked dead. I know he is not happy living the lie of the gay lifestyle. James Dobson has spoken on this and the original Christian organization Focus On The Family has good support information for families of gay children or other family members. I would go to their web site for help. I would let your son know that if he is to remain living with you you expect him to respect your Views on his boyfriend and him to refrain from Public Displays of Affection in any room of your home.
I will be Praying for you.
Anne Watkins