how do u get ur sex life back?

Jessica - posted on 12/18/2009 ( 5 moms have responded )




me and my partner have lost our sex drive he works all day long hours n after lookin after our 7 month old all we wanna do is sleep, i try to make time for it cos its important to me but he never seems interested, it makes me feel so unattractive and i just wanted to no if any other mums out there had any ways to pick there sex life back up, ive tried talkin n sayin how i feel it hasnt worked


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Soky - posted on 11/14/2010




We just basically go over to the person and then throw yourself on them! Hahaha! It works for us! We use to hump like bunnies. Then my daughter was born then it was a dry spell until I was healed.. we were always tired but we manage to make love whenever we have the chance because it brings us closer♥ A lot of times men dont think unless you actually get physical with them. Grab him and throw him on the bed. Be a little rough. LOL. IT WORKS FOR ME! AND WE HAVE BEEN HAVING GREAT SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP.

Rachael - posted on 08/01/2010




ehh didnt.. my son is 19 months old and my husband doesnt want another so we dont have sex... maybe once every 2 months... maybe... it has to be willing on both sides... talk about it. dont fight about it. dont get upset. wait it out and it will hopefully come bacl

Jessica - posted on 02/25/2010




im in the same boat as emily he wants it all the time and its not that im tired or anything i just dont want it i have a feeling its due to me having to have a 4th degree episiotomy but that was almost 8 months ago and still no interest so idk

Emily - posted on 02/13/2010




I am having a similar experience but reversed. I am the one not wanting sex nor to I feel sexy or attractive since giving birth to my twins via c-section. And, I am exhausted all the time. I also am not finding him as attractive either because he has gained so much weight too. And he doesn't seem to care. It turns me off. I'm not sure how to find my way back.

Christina - posted on 02/02/2010




If you get some useful replies please share them with me as I'm in exactly the same situation as you. I try but he's totally lost interest in me. I already feel unattractive since giving birth, especially with a huge flabby belly following the birth of twins by Caesarean section. So his lack of interest in me is making my feelings worsen to the point of depression! When I try to talk about it he just says nothing is wrong and that he loves me but that it's about the babies now which I don't agree with. He doesn't see us having a problem but I do. Help!!

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