Help me please!!

Cassandra - posted on 01/12/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )

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Hi I'm new to this site and am looking for some advice. I have one son who is 17 months old and I am pregnant. Ever since he was born a tension between myself, the mil and her partner has been developing. They were very overbearing and intrusive from the get go, super disrespectful of my wishes...examples: barging in while I'm bf and asking to burp him, trying up give formula when they know we were breast feeding only, wanting him to second he woke up in the am when we were on vacay w his fam...I could go on and on...they are super pissed bc we never ask them to babysit...we live 3.5 hours away and when we are in town we always see them I just never leave my son w them. Now my husband and I are going to Tahoe next weekend and I'm having my mom watch the baby here at our house. MIL is livid. I'm sorry but my mom is who I feel most comfortable with, she is completely respectful of how I want things done, always asks if things are ok if she's not sure and never pressures me for my. son like MIL's do. Only 3 people have watched my son, my mom, my dad and a close friend of mine w a 13 month old Bs she's a nurse. It's really hard for me t leave him as it is, I'm a stay at home mom and we have no family near by so it's just me and him every day all day...maybe that makes it harder for me idk....anyway she blew up at my husband last night, he stood up for us and said we don't trust you to respect our decisions and follow or rules etc etc...it ended bad....what should I do?? Should I just email her his I feel?? She honestly doesn't get it. Have a sit down next time we are all together (could be a long time and idk that I want this lingering for so long?). Any advice is appreciated. If you want more details I can share just thought post was already too long...

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