Ok so I am new at this, but here it is my brother in law is a CONTROL FREAK!!!!!!!!!

Jade - posted on 08/28/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )

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and has changed my sister to be the biggest B*tch EVERRRRRRRRRRRRRR and he has made my family that has always been close fall apart.... He tell everyone it is all my fault our family is apart, but yet tried to hit me with his car in a parking lot, blames me for everything even got a nail in his tire it was my fault. Now says my niece and nephew, who are not even his kids hate me and all these lies, told the kids I want to kill them and I am on drugs, I have never done a drug in my whole LIFE. My sister has disowned me and my husband and 4year old daughter, and she thinks all the lies he says about me are true, even said I keyed the car. she is 18mnths older then me to and a nurse, to me someone who would see families falling apart and dying everyday would care more about their own

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Corinne - posted on 09/08/2012

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Some people are just blind to the truth. My M.I.L tried to wreck our marriage but because my hubby had grown up with her lying and manipulating he thought it was normal behaviour. It took a lot to get him to see that his mother was in the wrong and at one point, I honestly thought I was going to lose my husband to his mothers lies. Now that hubby has seen the extent of her lies and put her straight, we're not worth her time and she's cut us off. Good riddance, she's not worth my time and energy.

As your sister isn't part of your inner family, I'd leave well alone. It's sad that she believes her husbands lies, but that's her problem, not yours. I really feel for those kids of hers, but again, that's for her to deal with. You know the truth and those who know you and care for you know the truth too, nothing else matters. Let them play their little dramas out, but keep well clear, you don't need this in your life.

Chaya - posted on 08/28/2012

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I'd tell him to grow up or get out, but you'd need your sister being behind you for that to work

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