They just never go away

User - posted on 05/17/2010 ( 1 mom has responded )

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He got the guns in the divorce. When I went back with him, he eventually put one to my head. I ended up in the VA hospital because the police did not even care that he tried to kill me. They helped him put me on the street with no place to go. So now I try to move as far away as I can. I still have to see him because he is invited to grandkids events, but I will not let him get close to me again. I just tell him to save the charm for someone else. I am no longer his fool.

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Terra - posted on 06/25/2010

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My ex husband used to hit me, alot. he would either tell me that he was going to kill himself, or tell me that if I called the police, I would be out on the streets with no place to live, and no job, because I was just too stupid to work!! Nobody would hire a stupid, worthless "person" like me. And, so the kids would have to go to a foster home. Of course like a stupid person like he always said I was, I belived him. One night, he had me down on the ground choking me where I could not move or breathe. i seriously thought I was going to die!!! For some reason, he stopped. I grabbed a vase and threw it at him before running out of the room. He got a small cut on his leg. The police came, and guess what?????? I went to jail!!! He had hit me and choked me for years, and it was me that went to jail!!! Of course the cop that came was friends with him. My ex did always tell me that he could get anyone to belive him, and the police wold always be on his side, because he was friends with one of the cops. My ex is also a very good lier. But when I had to go before the judge, the judge seemed to know that he had done something to me. My ex was there. And after the judge told me and him that he would not get in trouble for admitting to what he did, that's when he actually admitted to what really happened. Even though we are divorced, he still lies, calls me names and disrespects me in every way possible. He just wont stop!!!!!!! I'm just sooo tired of it!!!! I wish I could go back in time and not be the stupid person he always said that I was, and left him. I wish I knew there was places for women to go in situations like that. All I can do now is make sure my kids do not make the same mistakes that I made.

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