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Tina - posted on 04/09/2010 ( 5 moms have responded )

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I would love to know if anyone has delt with what I'm going through. -I'm going through a leagal battle with not just my EX but also my mother (adopted me at 71/2 ) and the man SHE married when I was 11 1/2. I lost my daughter to my mom & her husband (he's very rich) due to their meddleing . They made sure nothing "I" did was good enough by throughing their riches at her. My daughter left me for them. They wouldn't let me leave the driveway one day to take her to her dad's tp stay with him because of how hatfull she had become to me. They swore I was taking her to a pedifile & had the "conections to make life hard for me if I did't let my daughter move in w? them. NOW they are paying my ex's attorney's fees so he can go after custody of my boys. I guess since my ex signed his daughter over to them REAL quick they figure they'll get my boys also by doing this .

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April - posted on 04/13/2010

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I think you should contact the organization in charge of lawyers and judges - the state bar association or the state attorney general and complain about your rich mother and her undue influence. It does not sound legal.

Tina - posted on 04/12/2010

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I think I have a good lawyer, at least I'v heard others say he's one of the best in my area and am trying to make sure all my ducks are in a roe. I believe in the old axiom of "if you don't have something nice to say about someone, don't say anything" and try to live by it. That way my boys wont hear negative things from me about the others. Thank you for the advice and pep-talk. Keep me in your prayers please.

Valerie - posted on 04/11/2010

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you need a good lawyer, good behavior on your part, documented behavior that is bad on their part, a good job....don't badmouth anyone...all the best

Tina - posted on 04/11/2010

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I do have a lawer and have been battleing both my mother's with her lawer, going for grandparents rights even though I'v invited her over many times. She and her husband are angery that I DON"T want my boys around HIM. Thats when they Took my ex's side and decided to pay his leagal fees. This has been dragging on for 15 months now with the other lawers playing a stalling game. The Judge did bring in a GAL and that just adds to my worry because she happens to be on some typ of board that my mother is on. Its just not fair, all I wanted when it came to my ex was that he FINALlY pick up 1/2 the medical fees insurence does'ent cover like it says in our marrage settlement decrea (signed by a judge) and to have his visits with the boys set in stone as in the exact month & dates he is to have the boys so he stops jacking me around.

Tiffany - posted on 04/11/2010

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It sounds like what you are going through is tough. I'm not in a situation like that but my I do understand having a troubled relationship with a mother. I have had to tell my mom she has to stay at a hotel when she comes to visite my children because of her angry outbursts and nasty behavior. As a result she is choosing to visite the kids when they are with their dad I'm Florida- my mom and his mom are still friends since the divorce- I wish you the best. You need a lawyer, have you looked into free legal help in your state?

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