Baby's dad wants to be in babys life and mine but my parents tell him to stay out of it. what should i do?

HeatherLyn - posted on 01/02/2013 ( 9 moms have responded )

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i am 17 years old and pregnant with my first baby. the dad wants to be in the picture and even wants to be with me. my parents on the other hand tell him to stay out of it. my babys dad has very high trust issues with me just becuase he thinks he is going to go to jail because my dad told him the truth even though i thought he already knew what my dad told me. what should i do? help me please

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HeatherLyn - posted on 01/13/2013

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we actually worked things out and everything. i stayed with him this weekend and we have decided to be a family and for me to move in so we can actually we a family

HeatherLyn - posted on 01/06/2013

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well he gets a pretty decent check and we talked last night for hours for the first time in weeks

Heather - posted on 01/04/2013

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All I can say is talk to him. But I do know ssi checks are not a lot. My Boyfriend gets ssi also and its not a lot of money.

HeatherLyn - posted on 01/03/2013

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he doesnt really have a job. but he makes money off his ssi check every month and he has his own place. idk if the baby dad will go for it cause he is scared to get close to me cause he dont want to go to jail and march

Heather - posted on 01/03/2013

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Does the baby's Dad have a job? His own place?

Your parents can't keep him from your child's life just because they don't want him to be there. You could always go live with your baby's dad. when is your birthday?

HeatherLyn - posted on 01/02/2013

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i live under my parents roof and my mom makes me feel like i am a mistake. but my babys dad is 19 and i just want my kid to be happy

Ashley - posted on 01/02/2013

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you are 17 and pregnant, therefore, you are emancipated, meaning an adult, your parents no longer have any say in what you do. but, if you are living under there roof, then you do need to respect them and follow thier rules. if you want him in your life and your baby's life and he wants to be there, then move out and let him. your dad can not send him to jail unless he is a certain age, (i think 21), but you should check into your state laws.

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